Q&A for How to Be Attractive

Flash a big smile to the other person. Smiling is a great way to let someone else know that you're interested in them.

There's nothing wrong with being a nerd, and you can be both attractive and a nerd. Don't overthink it and don't worry about what other people say. Just be yourself.

You should stand up for yourself in a mature manner, because doing so shows that you are confident and not weak. Avoid name-calling or other acts of immaturity.

Remember to be grateful, and remember how good a life you have. When you aren't happy, think about things in your future that make you excited.

Did she seem like she was joking? Regardless, you should always take someone seriously if they say they're thinking about suicide. It sounds like your friend has some serious self-esteem issues, and probably depression as well. You should tell an adult about this, like one of your parents or a teacher or counselor at school.

Look at the signs -- does he tease you or flirt or stare at you? Look for signs like that.

You should act confident, because confidence can be very attractive. You should also have a positive attitude and be a nice person.

Don't try to get between her and her current partner, as that will only cause problems for both of you. Hang out with her as a friend for now. Get to know her better. This way, if she does break up with her current significant other, you'll be in a good position to ask her out (but you shouldn't do it immediately, wait a few days or a week, depending on how serious the relationship was).

You should let the other person talk more to prevent you from acting goofy.

Speaking quickly may not be unattractive. It can be cute, and make you seem bubbly and fun.

Just be yourself no matter what. You don't want to "make" anyone like you. It is best if someone likes you for who you are. Besides, one of the most attractive things is self confidence.

Be direct, but keep it casual. Have a specific activity in mind. Say something like, "Hey, [their name], do you want to the movies with me on Friday night?" If they say no, try not to take it personally. Just say, "Okay, no problem," and move on with your life.

Just stick to your natural skin tones. For the base of your eye shadow, go for a shade lighter than your foundation. For your crease and part of your lid, go for a shade about the same tone as your contour. To finish it, go for a natural mascara. If you have light colored hair, go for a brown. If you have a darker color of hair, go for black. With blush, just use something light and simple, not to too pink.

Believing in yourself is the first step. When you have a firm belief in yourself, your confidence will show you in an attractive light to others.

Always assume rumors are false. Find out for yourself by asking them. Make sure it's in private, so their answer doesn't change.

Yes, being honest is always more attractive than being dishonest.

Find someone you have something in common with! You will end up being more talkative because you like to talk about that particular topic.

It depends on what you're aiming for. Acting happy, stubborn, and bubbly can make you look kawaii, but having an elegant look, like ripped jeans with a black shirt and shoes, can make you look like an attractive kawaii package. But the best thing to do is be yourself. That's how you know people love you for who YOU are.

Make a list of everything you like about yourself and read through the list every day. Add to it when you think of something new. Also, stand in front of your mirror and do self-affirmations. Tell yourself something like, "I'm smart, I'm beautiful, I'm confident." Do this every morning before you leave the house. These things should boost your confidence.

You don't have to do anything that makes you uncomfortable. Use the tips you find appropriate, and skip the ones that you don't like. As long as you're attending to your personal hygiene, dressing in clean, neat clothes, etc., that's all that really matters.

Why did you guys break up? If there was some kind of relationship issue, try to fix it. Talk to him and tell him you still have feelings for him, and ask if he'd be willing to give you another chance. But if he can't see how great you are, it's time to move on.

Try going out more and develop your social skills. Overcome your confidence, that way you won't seem unapproachable and people wouldn't be scared to come to you. Try talking and engaging in more conversations.

Have you ever heard the phrase "fake it til you make it"? That's what you have to do. 90% of being confident is simply pretending to be confident until you actually feel that way. Think of the most confident person you know (a celebrity, a parent, even a character in a book) and pretend you're that person.

Appearing confident and being kind to everyone is an effortless way to be attractive.

Be yourself and ignore anyone who says anything about you. Because everyone should feel comfortable in their own skin. And it's amazing that you are lovable, because you should have positive feelings about yourself!

Try being friends with them or hanging out with them in your free time and get to know them a little bit. And don't be scared of telling your crush you like him.

Have more self-confidence, and be yourself no matter what other people say about you. If you like someone, then find something you both have in common.

There's no way to make others like you. The best you can do is to be your best self (confidence is key), talk to the people you want to get to know, and accept that some people aren't going to like you, and that's perfectly OK. Instead of trying to get someone to like you, it's better to spend that time and energy with people who already do.

That depends on how he views weirdness. Some avoid it because they're afraid of or have a difficult time accepting things that are different, while others seek it out because they're adventurous and bore easily with the mundane. Be yourself and focus your attention on those who appreciate your uniqueness rather than shy away from it. Most of history and culture's most famous figures have been considered "weird", but it didn't prevent them from accomplishing great things.

It's hard to stop being shy completely. However, practice becoming more confident. It's okay if it doesn't work right away, start with speaking up a little more in regular conversations and move on to speaking to new people.