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Is it unhealthy to live with your parents?

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Not necessarily! You can create a healthier environment by acting as an adult member of the household. You might share household responsibilities, take on projects within the home, or even cook meals for everyone else.

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What are the disadvantages of living with your parents?

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The longer you live with your parents, the more likely it is that you and your parents will revert to the same behaviors and practices of your childhood.

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How do you deal with living with parents as an adult?

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Make an effort to be more independent while you're living at home. This could involve going on walks, having a job, volunteering, studying at coffee shops, and more.

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How do you prove to your parents you can take care of yourself?

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Set boundaries and try to stick with them! For instance, if you tell your parents that you won't be home for dinner on some days, make sure that you have a plan on when/how you're going to eat that day.

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How do I cope living with my parents?

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Try to be as mature and tactful as possible. Make it clear that you're mature enough to handle the increased responsibility that comes with independence.

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