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How do you find things to talk about if you and your date are lost for words?

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Before the date, think about five interesting things about yourself that you'd be willing to reveal and share. One way to weave this into a conversation is to ask the question you'd like to be asked yourself. Good conversation is also about sharing something a little meaningful about yourself. Some good icebreaker questions, like "what were you like in high school?" or "what would people be surprised to learn about you?" can really get the conversation going.

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How do you ask for someone's number without being obvious?

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Kevin Wang is a Social Events Specialist and the Founder and CEO of Amiccio, a New York City social app and social events platform that helps people make new connections. Kevin’s work focuses on connecting singles and new friends by hosting socials, dance classes, and speed dating events. He holds a BS in Economics from Duke University.

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Try to have a specific intention when bringing up exchanging contact information. For example, if you went to a pick-up soccer game, you might suggest staying in touch and letting each other know the next time you plan on playing a game. If you hung out with someone at a museum or concert, you might suggest meeting up again for similar activities.

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How do I deal with anti-social issues?

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Fake it until you make it. Even if it makes you uncomfortable at first, you'll gain confidence every time you challenge yourself to be a bit more social.

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How can I make a good first impression on people?

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You should just be yourself, even if you are nervous.

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