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I have dated a girl for more than six months. I love her, but she is a virgin and doesn't believe in sex before marriage. How can I change her mind?

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You can't just change a woman's mind about this, and even if you could, it wouldn't be right. If you are truly in love with her you will wait to get married, the night will be the best night of her life - she will be marrying the man she loves and keeping a promise to herself.

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How can I make my partner happy after I have done something wrong?

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The best solution is to ask your partner. Different people will require different things after being wronged. Ask your partner "What can I do to make this up to you?"

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How can you talk calmly with your partner if he won't let you even touch him?

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You should talk to your partner in a very soft and calm voice and pay full attention to what he says. Listening is key. If he is already upset, make sure not to criticize or insult him. However, it may also be a good idea to let him cool off before having a calm conversation together.

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Holding a boy's hand without dating him, is it bad?

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Not necessarily, but the holding of hands does signify something.

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is it advisable to keep a long-distance relationship?

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Long-distance relationships can be successful as long as both partners communicate their desires and expectations upfront. Also, it is important to know a possible end-date for the distance, since it can be hard to keep it going if there is no date in the future when you two will see each other more.

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How can I be a girlfriend to a boy who is sick of girls and angry with me?

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It may be a good idea to give him time to get over a previous relationship before he can fully participate in a new one. Let him know you care, but that you are willing to give him space.

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How can a long-term relationship last if one expresses their love and the other doesn't?

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Both people in the relationship need to be honest about what they want/need in the relationship. If one person feels like they are not getting the love, attention, affection, etc. that they need, they should tell their partner that. Don't expect them to change overnight, you may have to remind them a few times before things start to happen. However, if several conversations are had and there is no meaningful change, the relationship will probably not work out.

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How do you love your wife as God loved the church?

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Give her your attention. If you give her your attention, she will feel you care about her. The best way to heal everything is to show your love, care and attention.

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Can relationships be successful despite poor communication between partners?

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Communication can be developed and improved. Consider seeing a couples counselor, or just making a serious commitment to being more expressive of your needs and more open to hearing about your partner's.

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The person I'm with has not called or picked up my call in a long time. Is it possible he still loves me?

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If he's too busy, maybe. Also, maybe he just doesn't like phones. He may very well prefer seeing you in person to talking to you via electronics.

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