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Are there anyways to prevent peer pressure?

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Absolutely! I think the best thing you can do to keep this from being a problem is to make friends with a bunch of different people. I think peer pressure is a really big deal if you only have one friend group, because the stakes are higher if they pressure you into something and you have to leave them. But if you can leave one friend group and just go to another friend group, the stakes aren't as high.

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How can teens get over peer pressure?

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As a teenager, your friend group is going to be fairly reasonable in most situations. You may be perceiving certain pressures to do something, but if you turn down them down and you're polite, I feel like the vast majority of teens will be perfectly okay with that.

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What is an example of peer pressure?

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For example, when your friends want to drink at a party where the parents clearly stated there is to be no alcohol, but others say something like, "Hey, everyone will having something--you can't party without at least some beer." You might feel conflicted because you want to fit in, but also want to comply with the parents' request.

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How can you resist peer pressure?

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You can resist peer pressure by thinking things through for yourself, and figuring where you stand on the risks of the situation. Is the trouble you might get into as a result of the behavior of the group worth maybe being called a name or getting some pressure from your friends? You could make a quick pro and con list, then make a decision based on that. You can also try being part of more than one group to dilute the impact of peer pressure.

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What are the main causes of peer pressure?

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Peer pressure results from wanting to be liked and accepted by your friends. You don't want to stand out or be different. You just to blend in with those you really like, and don't want to question their behavior. You just want to "be like everyone else." Friendships are very important, and you don't want to be excluded from the group.

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Is peer pressure a good thing?

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Peer pressure can be both a positive and a negative thing depending on the topic involved. Lots of times you can do the right thing because you don't want to go against the crowd or the rules or the expectations. It can also be negative when you don't think something through for yourself, and just blindly go along.

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