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What are some homemade gifts you can make?

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If you can sew, you could make a pillow or a blanket. You could learn to make homemade salt scrubs if your Secret Santa is female. If you can knit or crochet, your Secret Santa might like a scarf, hat, or sweater in their favorite sports team's colors.

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Should I tell my Secret Santa what I want?

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You can, but you shouldn't know who your Secret Santa is.

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What if I don't know what they like?

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Have a conversation with them and drop subtle hints. Don't outright ask, "What do you want for Christmas?" Ask questions such as, "What are your hobbies?" to get something relevant to that. Ask them about their favorite movies/games/books/etc.

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What is a reasonable price to set for the gifts?

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It depends on how much you have budgeted. If this is a smaller thing that's mostly informal and just for fun, $5 is a good idea because you get to see people get creative with what they have. Do not exceed $20 for any gathering.

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When do we give the presents out?

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You give the presents out sometime near Christmas - usually around December 19.

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How do I do a gift exchange so that the person doesn't know who the gift came from?

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You could arrive early to school or work or wherever and place the gift at the person's desk or wherever they usually sit, or you could ask a mutual friend to give the person the gift, after they promise not to tell.

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Do you write your name on the present for a secret Santa gift?

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No. If you wrote your name on it, it wouldn't be a secret.

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When people do secret Santa, do they still buy for other people too, or just buy for the person they have for Secret Santa?

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Usually, the point of a group choosing to do Secret Santa is for each person to only have to buy the one gift, thus saving everyone money and time.

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What are good presents to give my Secret Santa?

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Tea, coffee, candles, lotion, a journal, a calendar, a nice pen, candy, a gift certificate to a favorite lunch haunt, or a gift card to favorite place to shop.

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What are some good stores to shop at while doing a Secret Santa?

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Go to dollar stores, such as 5 Below and Dollar Tree. They are inexpensive, and often sell things that look more expensive.

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What if they know who gave it to them?

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It's not the end of the world. Lots of people decide to tell one another who bought what at the end anyway.

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Should I write the name of the person that I bought the gift for?

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Yes, you can. This will ensure that the person who the gift is intended for actually receives it.

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What if there is an uneven number of people for the secret Santa?

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Names are drawn at random, not partnered. Odd numbers don't impact the result, each person participating is simply buying a gift for another participant.

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Can I include myself in it?

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Yes, you can organize the Secret Santa and still include yourself.

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What is a good Secret Santa gift for high school students?

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Popular books or movies are always a good choice for teenagers, or a gift card to a fast food restaurant or Starbucks.

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Can the organizer or name assigner participate in the gift exchange/Secret Santa?

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Of course! Just make sure all the names are folded up and shake the hat or box containing the names before choosing.

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Does the giver eventually tell the gift recipient their name?

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You can, but it depends on the individual situation.

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How do I organize a Secret Santa gift exchange when everyone lives far apart?

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It's best to do this with people you can actually get together with. Otherwise, you'd have to mail gifts to each other.

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What if I'm a child?

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You could organize a Secret Santa exchange with your classmates! (You would need to make sure the school and your teacher would allow it though.) You could also ask your family members to participate in a Secret Santa exchange with you.

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Do I write something about the gift so they can guess what it is?

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No. You should let them guess without clues -- it's more fun for both of you!

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How do I reveal myself as the secret Santa?

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Give subtle hints throughout, or just tell them outright. It's your choice!

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Do I put my name down in the inside of a Secret Santa gift so they only get to know their Secret Santa at the very end?

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If you'd like to, you can. You could also leave clues as the event draws closer.

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Won't they suspect something if you ask them random questions?

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Maybe. Ask your friends to start a conversation and just drop questions in casually.

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Do I put Santa on the gift or my name?

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You just put "Secret Santa." The point is for it to be a secret, and putting your name isn't very secretive.

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In our group, we won't have time to open the gifts together. In this case, can we write our name on the present?

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No. If you gave a gift, you cannot write your name on it.

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What if I am broke and I don't like to make crafts?

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Offer a service, like cutting the lawn or walking your Secret Santa's dogs.

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If a person is absent on the day the secret Santa is set, can that person still participate?

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Leave the gift out for him/her, and he/she can bring in the gift the next day.

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Who will buy the Secret Santa gift for the last one if the headcount is an odd number?

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Anyone can. Have two people discuss among themselves if anyone would be willing to buy two gifts. Happy gifting.

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What should I do if we have an odd number of people playing?

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That doesn't matter. You aren't "pairing up" to do the exchange -- you are drawing names. The number of participants is not relevant because there will be one name in the hat for each participant to draw.

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What's a good present when doing a Secret Santa?

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Candy, books, stationery, tea, dollar store stuff.

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