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Is it wrong to try to change my man into a better person instead of breaking up with him?

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It's not wrong, but the thing is, you can't really change a person. You can make him realize his mistakes but you can never really change HIM. He can decide to change himself. Even though you can't really change him, give him a chance. If he doesn't care about your concerns, then you know he isn't right for you.

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If I have lost my dream guy because of my recent lack of attention. What can I do now so he will notice me again?

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You could start by trying to post things on social media that he has an interest in. If you see him in public walk up to him and ask him how he's been. Remember to always be yourself.

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Is it okay to tell a man I miss him after many years apart?

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It's okay, as long as you're okay with all of the possible outcomes. If he tells you the feeling isn't mutual, how much would that hurt you? I think it's worth finding out how he feels, but it's up to you.

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I have tried everything in this article but still no progress. Now what?

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See if there is another wikiHow article that has some different suggestions. But most importantly, don't try too hard. Just be yourself and put yourself in situations where you could meet new people, and then let things roll from there!

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Why do I keep attracting men that I don't like?

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It's impossible to say. If you're attractive, men will be attracted to you regardless of your personality. Think of it as a blessing!

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How long should I wait to date again after breaking up with my boyfriend of 2 years?

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Maybe wait two months or so. Honestly, It is totally up to you and how fast you get over the person and the relationship. Don't start dating until you're sure you're over your ex unless you're honest with the new guy that you're not ready to be serious yet.

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My friends are falling in love having fun with their guys, but I am not finding the right one. What should I do?

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Never compare yourself to your friends and their experiences. Everybody is different and want different things at different times. This is an opportunity to look at yourself and see if you can improve your confidence or even just figure out what it is you actually want from a relationship. Don't rush into things as this is when poor decisions can be made.

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Why can't I find a good guy?

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Sometimes you just have to be patient. However, it may be necessary for you to reevaluate what you're looking for and lower or change your standards a little bit, as described in the article.

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I still love my ex, but I am not sure if he still cares or not. What do I do?

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He's your ex. At one time or another, you probably talked about everything. Ask him to talk, then tell him how you feel and ask how he feels.

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How does someone become committed?

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Enthusiasm is necessary for commitment. If commitment is lacking, there is a spark missing on some level. Attraction has varying degrees. If it's not at a high level, you can't convince yourself or someone else to commit.

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I seriously want a boyfriend but am having no luck, are their any particular/specific places to look?

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Places that interest you and may be a future common interest with a potential date you might meet there: library, tech store, art store, museum. Or you could just explore new things in general that interest you - maybe take a new class of some kind or volunteer. That is a good way to put yourself in the presence of new people that you will see multiple times as the class or program goes on, giving you an opportunity to get to know someone.

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How do I get over my ex husband? It's been five years since my divorce, and he has moved on and remarried.

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Try going on a dating site, make friends and find someone new. You don't fall in love once in your life. Just hang out with people and put yourself out there.

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A guy paid me $50 dollars to date him. What do I do?

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Please do not take that offer. He's just buying you, which isn't good. Those type of relationships can end badly, so please do not take that offer.

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