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What if he doesn't talk to you but talks to your friends?

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Try talking to him. But definitely don't push him. Just say hi at first. Show an interest in what he does and you can ask about that. Or if you know he likes music or sports, ask him his favorite bands or teams.

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I used to sit next to her in class, but now the seating plan's changed we aren't anymore. How can i still talk to her without looking awkward/weird?

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Try to catch her eye and hold eye contact. Try to talk to her at her locker. Come up with reasons to talk to her at lunch if you can. Maybe you can join the same activities she does after school.

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I have a crush on one of my best friends and its been over 4 months. I'm scared to talk to him because I think of the negitve things, I need your help

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Try to see if he shows that he's especially interested in you. Does he flirt with you? Does he pay you many compliments? Does he try to be around you and do the same things you're doing? If he does, you can try to get up the nerve to tell him how you feel. If you're afraid of ruining your friendship, you can tell him that.

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What to do if I'm too scared to talk to my crush and don't know what to say?

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Think about some things you have in common and maybe even write down with specific things to talk about. Write them down. You can even practice them with your friends if you're comfortable doing that. Try to come up with some questions if you have a class together or if you know they're interested in something -- ask about those things. It'll be nice to show an interest.

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