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How to get a girlfriend through chatting?

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I think the most important thing is to work on your tone, since a lot can be lost in translation when chatting through text. So, make sure to include big words like "awesome", use lots of exclamation points and use smiley faces. Positive comments, enthusiasm and warmth are important to every conversation. This way, you'll make your intentions clear and will get her to open up to you.

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How can I find a teen girl that is my age to be my girlfriend?

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First, make sure you have a nice profile that has a good picture and some positive information about you. The best resource would be friends of friends, so check out your friends' friend lists and see if there is anyone you like. Then send them a friend request along with a private message letting them know that you have friend in common and you'd like to get to know them better.

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How do I ask a girl who is a total stranger out on Facebook without coming off as a creeper?

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Well, asking out someone you don't know on the basis of her internet photos is by definition kind of creepy. You can try having a few solid conversations with her before asking if she'd like to meet for coffee.

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What does it mean if a girl chats with me a lot, and when I don't chat with her, she goes offline?

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She probably dislikes that you aren't chatting with her. Try your best to be online as much as possible and spend some time chatting with her.

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What should I do if my girlfriend blocks me on Facebook?

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Ask her why and afterwards just leave her alone and let her have some alone time. Don't keep texting her.

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How do I chat with an unknown girl?

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Be polite and show the respect with which you want to be treated.

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How do I know that the girl is a 'real person' and not fake?

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Just ask her to write a 5- or 6-digit number that you give her on a piece of paper and ask her to take a photo with it and send it to you.

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What if I am only able to see her once a year?

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You can try to do a long distance relationship.

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How can I get a girl from my church to fall in love with me online?

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Your best bet would be to just talk to her after church services.

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How can I ask someone to become my girlfriend if she lives far away from me?

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Take it slow and get to know her. Ask her about her interests, and show her that you care.

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How do I get my ex back if she broke up with me because she thought something that wasn't true?

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Using Facebook isn't going to help. Call her up and ask if you can both meet up somewhere neutral, like a cafe or park, to talk about what has happened. Tell her you want to explain your side of the story and hope that she'll be gracious enough to hear you out. It's up to her if she thinks you've told the truth of not but at least try. No guarantees but be brave!

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How can I find out if someone is interested in having sex?

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The best thing to do is just ask her. Obviously you should wait until you know the girl well and you've built up a rapport that includes a lot of flirting, if not in-person direct contact. If she's given you signals that she likes you and would be open to taking the relationship to the next level, just ask her if she wants to have sex.

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