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    Should you kiss on the first date if you met online?
    Maya Diamond, MA
    Relationship Coach
    Maya Diamond is a Dating and Relationship Coach in Berkeley, CA. She has 15 years of experience helping singles stuck in frustrating dating patterns find internal security, heal their past, and create healthy, loving, and lasting partnerships. She received her Master's in Somatic Psychology from the California Institute of Integral Studies in 2009.
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    Some people are less likely to kiss on the first date if it's someone they met online, rather than someone they already know.
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    What if we are in public? Is that an awkward place for a first kiss?
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    People often kiss in public, but your date may be more comfortable with somewhere more private. Until you know someone's comfort level with public displays of affection, you may want to kiss somewhere privately first.
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    How do you react if your partner backs out on the kiss?
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    If your date stops the kiss, the best thing to do is give them the space they're asking for in the moment. Don't get caught up with what it means about you. Even if you feel hurt, just take a deep breath and say, "No problem. I understand." At a less sensitive moment, you can discuss if the relationship is going to move forward or not.
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    When meeting for first time is it appropriate to kiss on cheek?
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    You should do whatever makes you feel comfortable. Some cultures incorporate a cheek kiss into their greeting, so what you choose to do may vary depending on what's typical for people where you live.
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