Q&A for How to Grind

Consent is the key. If you are uncomfortable, calmly refuse or say "don't." If he insists after that, walk away.

Don't cheat. Your life will get worse. Or, you can break up with your boyfriend but really, all this over a cheap grind?

You can try to put your legs out (like is a squat position) and lean forward a little. This helps balance out your body parts with out you having to focus on not falling over during the moment.

Don't. Don't ever try to make a girl do something she's unwilling to do or not comfortable with.

WikiHow is a site on "how to do anything". Grinding is a thing that some people apparently have questions about.

This is a common occurrence. The male can bend his knees or the girl can raise up on the balls of her feet to be a little higher up.

That's how you know you did it right. It's a sexual dance that, in turn, should cause a "sexual reaction" when done right.

I would say that it's more of a relationship dance, but it may depend on how close you are with your friend and how intimately you are grinding.

Yes, but public nudity is not usually a good idea, especially in crowded places.

That's more relative to twerking and not a grind. The dance is called grinding because two bodies are actually grinding together like gears or the like.

Well, yes. It's a sexual dance, so of course you might. Don't be nervous or embarrassed, it's completely normal. You can excuse yourself to the bathroom to take care of it if need be.

Tell him to cool it down or give him a glare to let him know that he's gone too far. If he persists, just walk away.

If you aren't into him, just politely say, "I think that's enough of that" and walk away. If you like him, you can continue dancing or ask if he wants to go somewhere more private.

If you still have to worry about being old enough to do a dance, you probably shouldn't be grinding.

You should gently say "no," as consent is everything. If he still persists, say "no" and walk away.

There should be a fine line between the appropriate ages. Like a middle schooler should not grind because they aren't ready for that kind of "sexual" stuff. If you were a high schooler, it honestly just depends what you are more comfortable with.

No, anyone can do it, as long as the person you're doing it with it comfortable with it.

It will look weird to the onlookers, and sometimes, you will be taken away by security.

Of course. Nervousness means you care about the outcome of what you're doing. However, try not to be nervous about what could go wrong. After all, you're just dancing.

Consent is key. If someone rejects you, smile and move on.

You can grind wherever you want, as long as you're comfortable with it. People often do it in clubs.

Ask a friend or a group of friends to join you on the dance floor, you'll feel more confident in a group. Then, once you're more comfortable, you can try asking someone you like to dance one-on-one, or just moving closer to this person while you're dancing.

You can back off for a minute or go to the bathroom, but honestly, the point of grinding is to arouse the recipient.

Yes, that can and does happen. If a guy does this and you feel uncomfortable, just ask him to stop.

Just move your hips slowly while keeping everything above your shoulders still so that you can kiss. It might take some practice for you to be able to do this.

If you dont feel that you are comfortable, just move away or tell him to stop. Though if you still want to grind, just tell him to 'take it slow'.

Just ask her if she has a boyfriend and if he is there.

If it's okay with both of you. If you're not okay with your girlfriend grinding with other people, let her know; don't just try to retaliate out of anger or jealousy. If you'd like to grind on other people, make sure your girlfriend is okay with that too before you do it.

You put your legs on each side of them and move your hips up and down.

Just politely explain you don't want to do that and, if they persist, leave.