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How do I emotionally connect with my boyfriend?

Kate Dreyfus
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Kate Dreyfus is a dedicated Holistic Love Coach, Holistic Empowerment Coach, Heart-Centered Expert, Intuitive Healer, Workshop Facilitator, and Owner of Evolve & Empower. She has more than ten years of experience supporting her clients successfully entering exclusive, romantic relationships within the USA, the United Kingdom, Canada, and Europe. Kate is devoted to helping others through personal growth and transformation, success in dating and romance, and healing and rebuilding after a breakup. She is also a member of The Biofield Institute, the Healing Touch Professional Association, and the Energy Medicine Professional Association. Kate holds a BA in Psychology from San Francisco State University.

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It’s all about developing an authentic-based relationship vs. ego-based relationship. As you build trust, it’s about practicing taking down your protective armor and letting your authentic-self shine through.

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What can you do if your boyfriend isn't really into deep emotions? How can you get him to open up?

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Paul Chernyak is a Licensed Professional Counselor in Chicago. He graduated from the American School of Professional Psychology in 2011.

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Try to accept him just how he is, flaws and all, and tell him so. This will make him feel safe, comfortable, and non-judged, which will help him get up the courage to be more honest and vulnerable with you over time. Don't rush him--just let him go at his own pace and take the time he needs.

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How do a girl and a guy create a bond?

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Start out as friends and get to know each other. Look for things you have in common, and let things that you don't have in common broaden your perspective. If you find that you're both interested in each other, try going on dates and becoming more intimate. Have fun discussions, joke around, and be able to laugh with and at each other. In addition, have deep conversations about each other's dreams, hopes, goals, and fears. Find out what drives the other person. Talk to each other about your emotions and try to put your emotions into positive actions. It takes a long time, but the longer it takes, the stronger the bond!

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How can I make my boyfriend forget about his ex-girlfriend?

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You can't force him to forget about someone. Try to remember that his past experiences make him the person you are with today. Focus on the present and the future you have with him.

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What do you do if you feel like you are losing a bond with somebody you wanted to keep forever?

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Talk to him/her. That's the best thing. Sit down and have an honest talk.

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What if you like a boy and they don't like you back

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Take time to get to know each other as friends. You might find that you prefer just being friends and don't really like him in that way either. If it's too difficult to be friends and you really have feelings for him that he doesn't share, don't worry. There are plenty of other boys out there. Just remember that you will eventually like a boy who will like you back, and he'll actually deserve your feelings for him.

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How can I tell if my boyfriend is lying?

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Try to get to know how he talks and acts when he's telling the truth. Look for signs like not making eye contact, being nervous for no reason, getting mad because you ask ordinary questions, and so on. Think about when he lies and who he lies to when you know he's lying. If he lies about silly things, or just lies because it's easier or takes less time than telling the truth, think about finding another boyfriend.

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How can I stop having misunderstandings with my boyfriend?

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So down with him. Tell him how you feel. Do not doubt him. Try to trust him. Trust is very important in relationships.

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