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  • Question
    Do guests need to bring something with them?
    Cheyenne Ayers
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    No, but if they want to they can.
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    What should I take as a guest of a Haldi Kumkum ceremony?
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    We normally don't take gifts for Haldi Kumkum. You can always take flowers for the lady or sweets for the kids, though.
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    Can a pregnant lady attend this ceremony?
    Maitru Bhave
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    Yes, she can. There is no restriction on what kind of ladies can attend the ceremony.
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    Can unmarried or divorced women attend the ceremony?
    Community Answer
    Yes, they can.
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    Do guests need to bring something with them?
    Community Answer
    Guests usually bring money as a gift to whomever the haldi is being held for. This a common ritual; otherwise, you don't need to bring anything.
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    Can a widow attend a haldi kumkum ceremony?
    ShrUtiable
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    This is a tricky question. Traditional and orthodox believers will never want a widow to attend their ceremony. But such regressive practices are being increasingly abandoned.
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    Should the guests wear black?
    Thina Cemax
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    Mostly in Hinduism, they won't wear black for a good day, marriage, prayer, temple, etc. White provides a good vibe and the best match to colours for all functions.
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    What day should the Haldi Kumkum ceremony be held?
    Community Answer
    Any day between Makar Sankranti to Rapta Saptmi, except Amavasya.
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    I m a Hindu. May I celebrate this or held this ceremony at my home?
    Rajyalakshmi
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    Yes, anyone can. But make sure there are at least 5 women at your kumkum ceremony.
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    In a haldi kumkum ceremony, isn't it necessary for a host to offer haldi kumkum and give a gift for an unmarried or widow guest?
    Tango Echo
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    The host cannot offer haldi kumkum to the unmarried and widows. Haldi kumkum is just for married women.
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    What are things to do before inviting women to a Haldi Kumkum ceremony?
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    In two small bowls (preferably silver), put the haldi and kumkum. Put the bowls on a tray (preferably silver) and keep these ready for your guests. Before the ceremony, it is customary to offer a bit of the haldi and kumkum to a deity.
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