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How do I know when to let go of a crush?

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If the other person tries to pull away from you when you get closer or they don't seem interested in talking to you, then it might be time to move on and let go.

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How do I tell a girl I like her?

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The best thing to do is just be honest and direct. Pay her a compliment and ask her if she'd like to go out with you.

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How do I know if I stand a chance if the person is shy?

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Observe him and see what he likes! If he likes books, see what books he likes and read one (or just carry it around and make sure he sees you with it!). If he likes a particular subject in school, try approaching him and asking him for help with that subject. Then follow the tips in the article to see if he might like you back!

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How do I know if my crush likes me if they have short replies via text?

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If the replies are consistently short, he/she probably isn’t interested. If you don’t want to be direct and ask them how they feel about you, I'd probably just leave it for a while and see if they get back in touch. When/if they do, curb the excitement a little and try to match their tone/reply lengths.

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How do I know if someone really likes me via talking over social media?

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You'll know if they: reply quickly, reply with long messages and if they text you often.

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What do I do if I talk to my crush and they ignore me? Does that mean they hate me?

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It doesn't necessarily mean that they hate you. It might mean that they are just shy around you or they are giving you a hint that they are not interested.

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How do I get my crush to open up to me and be more comfortable?

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By gaining your crush's trust. Follow the methods in Become a Trustworthy Person .

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Could my crush like me because they are very nice but have a girlfriend?

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It depends. If you know that your crush's relationship isn’t working out for them and they are being extra nice to you, then maybe. But if they have a healthy relationship with their girlfriend, then it’s most likely that they just want to be friends with you.

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