Q&A for How to Leave a Note Signed 'Secret Admirer'

You might want to consider putting it in his bag instead; leaving it at his desk allows too much opportunity for it to be seen by those for whom the note isn't intended.

Most people who leave secret admirer notes are unsure whether or not the other person likes them. If they knew they liked them, then there would be no need for a secret admirer note. Just give it to them and see what happens.

If you're not certain that he's pursuing someone else, then just go with the note. However, if you determine that he is trying to start a relationship with someone else, then it's best not to interfere.

Yes, of course.

Yes you can do that. Then they will know that they have a secret admirer.

You could write another note to your crush, giving him some kind of clue about your identity, or at least a clue that would lead him away from the person he suspects.

Ask your friend to give it to them. If you have lockers, then put it in their locker.

You should send him a note anyway. Maybe he told your friend that because he doesn't want people to know that he actually does like you. If you write a secret admirer note, he won't know it's from you anyway. Slip it into his desk or backpack when he's not looking.

Just write "from your secret admirer" at the end of your note.

First, get to know the person a little bit. Then you can send the person a secret admirer note.

Do it after school! Your crush will have a wonderful surprise when they open the locker to see the note you made!

As long as you are old enough and mature enough to know what you're doing and the possible outcomes.

Don't worry! You can still write to them! It's tough thinking that your crush has feelings for someone else, so start off slow and easy. You want to make sure that it isn't from your best friend, but don't make it too obvious that it's you. After you write one letter, you can write more! Some can be short and sweet, and some on the lengthier side, but make sure that your notes don't give away your identity. Also, if you write more letters, your crush might begin to like their secret admirer, you never know. Then you'll want to tell them your identity in person.

Of course! Sometimes people get a bit shy and try to hide the crush with a small lie.

Only tell people you trust about secret admirer notes. Otherwise, it could turn into an embarrassing situation. It is best to only ever tell very close friends (not many) or family.

If you are confident enough, tell your crush that it was you. Otherwise, start leaving less personal notes or stop leaving notes so if the teacher asks to see them. Make the handwriting different from yours so the teacher won't realize it's you, as they probably know your handwriting.

Yes! That would be a very good idea as you can send the note via email or social media. Use an email address that doesn't have your name in it, you could send it with a throwaway email.

Yes, any type of paper can be used.

Slip the note into a random locker, someone will find it and the drama will start. Make sure nobody sees you while you do it, and that the note specifically says his full name.

They may be embarrassed, or maybe they've simply never thought of you that way.

You would have to know their social media profiles first. Then, create a second anonymous account, and type a secret admirer note to them like you'd do in person, and send it. Depending on the site/app, you might send it either publicly on their profile, or privately as a direct message. Also, be careful if you send it on Wordpress, since the owner of the blog can see your IP address and possibly find out who you are (if they know your IP for example). To be extra safe, you can try using a VPN/proxy IP.