Q&A for How to Live Life As a Kid

This sounds a lot like how I was at 11, and a few years later I was diagnosed with depression. You should probably tell an adult (like your parents) about how you feel bad about yourself and they can get you help.

Set a time limit on how long you can play video games in a day. Don't do your studying in the same room as your video games. Don't start playing video games after school until you've finished your homework and/or feel confident for any tests you have coming up. Remember why you want to do well in school when it seems hard to stay focused. Try to step out of your comfort zone at school and talk to some new people. Just say hi and see where it goes. You never know who could be a good friend.

If it's that bad, try to keep it hidden. If you have siblings, try to hide it really well. Oh, and anyone who would stop being your friend just because you keep a diary isn't worth having as a friend!

Don't worry you're not alone. When I was younger I was the same way. In class when you have to speak up, just go over what you're going to say in your mind so when you finally speak you'll know what to say. It'll be hard at first but over time it'll be easier. I felt like I was dumb and ugly but I managed to kind of get over it by thinking about what I liked about myself. Whenever I felt like my body looked bad I would think about how good my hair was. Just remember that you aren't the only person feeling like that and there are plenty of people who are willing to help you.

Try to think positive thoughts and remember that it gets better. I went through similar things when I was 11, and only a year and a half later I am very happy. What worked for me was meditation and finding friends who complemented me. It helps to talk to someone too, maybe let your parents know how you're feeling or talk to a guidance counselor at school.

It's fun to be a kid, and pranks and jokes are all part of having fun. However, pranks and jokes should never be at the expense of someone else. If a kid ever takes a prank or a joke too far, you can tell a trusted adult about it.

It can be tough to talk to new people. When you're at home, try thinking of stuff you could say to break the ice, like, "Who's your favorite video game character?" or, "Have you guys been to the new skate park?" After you introduce yourself, you can ask one of your pre-planned questions to get a fun conversation going.

It's tough to ignore embarrassment, even as an adult. If you feel yourself getting embarrassed, try to remember that everyone else's opinion doesn't matter. What matters is that you like yourself and that you're having fun with your life. If you can repeat that to yourself enough, you'll slowly but surely feel less embarrassed over time.