Q&A for How to Look Hot for Your Boyfriend

The most important thing is that you be yourself. If he doesn't love you for you, you definitely shouldn't spend the rest of your life with him. It's fine to put effort into how you look to please someone else, but don't take it too far.

Act confident, make a joke if it's appropriate, and remember that they are probably also stressed about talking to a girl. Just be friendly and kind.

You can’t make a guy like you, but try being yourself and being confident. Do your best to dress nice and smell good, and try getting his attention by being outgoing and flirtatious. Smile at him, touch his arm when he's talking to you, pay him compliments, etc. If all else fails, just tell him you like him and see what happens!

It really depends what kind of boy he is. Some guys like sexy girls, some guys like girls with curves, some guys like a certain type of hair color. It's really okay to want to impress boys you like, but you can't make this the main thing of your life. He needs to like you for who you are, with your virtues and flaws, with your dreams and fears, with your smiles or scars. If he doesn't, then he is not the one for you.

Honestly, I think wearing sneakers or tennis shoes is the way to go. It shows that you're playful and you know how to be active instead of looking you're always go out on the town. Guys like somebody who is spontaneous and fun.

You can't force anyone to love you. Be kind, easy going, and approachable, go to public events and parties, meet lots of people. If you have a particular boy in mind already, try to make him laugh, or help him with something small if he asks you and you're able to, and try to make friends with him this way. If he likes you back, he will want to keep the friendship going. If he keeps texting you, wanting to see you more, that means he's interested. Consider if you're ready for a relationship, in case your friendship evolves into something more, but don't push it and don't be too hard on yourself if it doesn't. Every experience is a valuable lesson.

Dressing sexy lets your partner know that you haven't grown complacent in the relationship, and are still willing to put forth the same effort as when you were first trying to entice him.

Wear something light and easy to take on and off if you are going in and out of the water.

That's not how a boyfriend should be towards a girlfriend! Let him know that what he's saying is very hurtful and thoughtless. It is also manipulative and he is potentially trying to control you by saying this. For your own sake, remember that you should be healthy for your own good and not for someone else to stare at. If he doesn't stop saying this, it is possible the relationship is not healthy for you and you'd be better off on your own.

Notice the way he acts around you. Is it playful? Reserved? Something else? Does he act this way around you and only you, or does he act the same with other girls? Try to keep an eye out for subtle hints. Maybe he playfully flirts with you. If all else fails, then express your feelings! He may not like you, but may be open to dating. Or, he may like the fact that you were confident in confessing! Remember, the worst that could happen is rejection. Which just means he wasn't the right one for you.

Try putting on a cute headband. Nothing too fancy, just something that would look good with your hair color and outfit.