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How can I get my boyfriend to kiss me?

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Try giving him a compliment so he feels more comfortable around you. Then touch his arm or give him a big hug before looking in his eyes. If he still doesn't get your hints, don't be afraid to lean in for the kiss yourself.

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How can I give a good kiss to my boyfriend?

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Follow his lead and be sure he's comfortable with everything. Start slow and escalate it more if he seems interested.

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How do I make him touch me?

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Try touching him too! Touch his shoulders, sides, and face to show him that you're comfortable touching and being touched.

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Why does he kiss me on my neck?

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Lots of guys like that and think that their partners do too. If you like it, keep doing it! If you don't like it, tell him gently that you'd rather kiss on the lips or anywhere else you like.

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My boyfriend is 48. When we first started dating, he loved to kiss me. That didn't last very long. Now he says he’s just not into it anymore because he's too old. However, this is hurtful. I feel like there's something wrong with me.

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There's nothing wrong with you! Lots of guys stop kissing as much after they've been with someone for a while. The problem is that you told him you want to be kissed more and he won't meet you halfway. If he always refuses to compromise or do things with you, the problem is him, not you.

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I haven't kissed my boyfriend yet. He's my first boyfriend. I'm 14. I really like him, but I’m not sure when to kiss him, or how. I don't want to make him uncomfortable in any way. But I want to kiss him so badly!

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He probably wants to kiss you too! Try just asking him, as awkward as it might be. He is probably hoping you'll say or do something to break the ice.

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What if you're too young to kiss?

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It's okay to be or feel like you're too young to kiss. Concentrate on making friends and getting to know boys you like. Kissing will come when the time is right.

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What if I'm the one who is nervous because I like fast kisses and pecks instead instead of a full on make out kisses? I feel bad because he really likes kissing, but his kisses are always harsh and I get grossed out. How do I say something without hurting his feelings?

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Talk to him gently about what you like. Don't say "I don't like it when you do this," because that might hurt his feelings or scare him away. Instead, try saying "I really like this best." He'll want to make you happy!

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Whenever I want to kiss him he always say his lips will never forgive me, pls what can I do?

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He may not feel comfortable kissing yet. It's hard, but you have to respect his boundaries just like you would expect him to respect yours.

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Is it a sin to kiss your guy when the need arises?

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No. If it really bothers you afterwards to kiss someone, you don't have to do it, but kissing isn't a sin. It's a very natural thing that everybody does. It won't hurt you, him, or your religion.

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My date always kisses me, but we’re still not official. How do I go about making him committed to me?

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Ask him to make it official with you. But you have to be prepared to leave if he says no, or if he says "later." He won't decide to commit with you if you're already kissing and spending time with him anyways.

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How do I know if he wants to have sex with me?

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Ask him! It might be awkward, but he can't read your mind. Talk to him about what you're both interested in doing physically and what your boundaries are.

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I don't see any point to kissing - it feels like nothing. Am I rigid? My friends says it’s because I haven't found the one, but I’m not sure. It seems like they’re sugar-coating the act of kissing into a romantic thing.

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Some people find kissing very romantic, others don't. There's nothing wrong with either side. If you don't feel romantic about kissing someone, you don't have to feel bad about it or feel frustrated with you friends. It's just how you feel and it's okay.

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I'm 11 and I really want to have my first kiss but I don't know if he wants to. Should I make the first move?

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Definitely! It's okay to make the first move. He'll probably be very happy you did--it's likely he feels nervous and scared too and is waiting for you to act.

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I am a 13 year old girl and my boyfriend kissed me in his room and undid my bra. I loved it. How do I make him do it again and why does kissing feel so calming?

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Tell him how much you liked it and that you'd like to do it again! If you don't say anything, he might think that you were scared or that you regret it.

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My friend is 13 and wants to make her boyfriend horny. She expects me to know how even though I've been single forever. Any advice for her?

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Dressing nicely (not necessarily provocatively, just with your clothes fitting right and flattering you), keeping clean, being attentive to him, and talking to him about what she wants to do will help!

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