Q&A for How to Make a Date With an Escort over the Phone

They may make explicit sexual advances or pressure you to pay for it. Escorts know this is illegal so they won't do it. The police don't have much of a reason to arrest you unless you are soliciting sexual favors in exchange for money.

You should. Escorts typically bring everything they need to do their job, but it doesn't hurt to bring what you need, either as insurance or because you prefer your own party favors.

Many people assume they are, but escorts generally think of themselves as classier working professionals. They sometimes will tell you they provide companionship or entertainment. Instead of sex, many escorts seek to provide girlfriend or boyfriend experiences, meaning they'll talk to you and go on a date with you.

An incall is when you go to the escort's home. An outcall is when they travel to meet you.

You may struggle to meet up with your escort. If the escort works at an agency and you know the number, call them. They can help you get in touch or at least confirm where the escort is.

That usually means the agency you called isn't trustworthy. You aren't getting what you asked for. You should call them back to cancel, then go elsewhere.

It is! You hear more about female escorts in popular media, but male escorts are out there. Look for escort communities online, such as on Reddit, BackPage, or dating sites.

That's a pretty straightforward date that often works well since you don't have to go through a lot of hassle setting up complicated plans or scheduling. The money should always be left in a plain, unmarked envelope. Be aware though that the escort has the right to refuse a drink.

Yes, but make sure you feel comfortable doing so. If you doubt that an escort or agency is trustworthy, you may wish to meet in public, like at a hotel.