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What should I text to my crush?

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Talk about something that's going on around you for an easy conversation starter. For example, you could comment on the music that's playing in the background.

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What happens you look at your crush, but he seems to spend more time looking at a different girl instead of me?

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Unfortunately, your crush may like that other girl. Try getting to know your crush as friends so that can learn about your personality. This may allow them to like you instead.

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What if I'm too nervous or shy to talk to my crush?

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It can be scary and difficult to talk to your crush. Try starting with a simple smile and a wave. This will allow your crush to notice you, and it likely won't be too scary -- even if you're shy!

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What if my crush looks at me, but he doesn't talk to me?

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If he looks at you frequently, this could be a sign that he likes you. Try saying hello and asking him how he's doing. It's very unlikely that he won't respond to a direct question.

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Do boys sometimes act rude when they like you?

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Both boys and girls may react strangely when they like a person. This is usually to hide their feelings and protect themselves. They may also be flirting in a misguided way.

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What should I do if my crush if always with other people who may be mean to me if I try to talk to them?

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It's especially hard to talk to your crush when you're worried about their friends being mean to you. Try to find times when your crush isn't surrounded by others. If that's not possible, address the group and just start by saying hello. If you share a class with one of them, ask about a recent test or project.

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What if my crush is always with her friend, who is a boy. I don't know if he is her boyfriend, but I just want to talk to her when she is alone. How would I be able to do that?

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Are there times when you pass each other in the hallways? Do you take a class together? Try to think of times when it wouldn't be strange for you to approach her. Also, you may need to get to know her friends, so you could try talking to her even though her friend who is a boy is with her.

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Should a fifth grader and a seventh grader date?

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It's probably best to ask your parents how they feel about a seventh grader and a fifth grader dating. This will keep everyone out of trouble.

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What should I do if I think my crush like me back, but my best friend also likes him?

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If your best friend isn't already aware of your feelings for your crush, it's time to have a conversation with her. The best thing you can do to avoid hurting your friend is to be honest with her.

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What do you do if your crush's friends know you like that person?

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This could be a good thing. Talk to your crush's friends, and see if they plan to tell your crush about your feelings. If they do, this may allow you and your crush to become aware of each other's feelings.

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How can I ask my crush for his number?

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You can ask them very directly for their number if you've gotten to know them a bit. If you're working together on a project, you may also be able to use that as an excuse to ask them for their contact information.

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How can I confess my feelings to my crush?

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There's no easy way to do this. You'll likely just have to come out and say, "We've been spending a lot of time together, and I've gotten to know you better. I really like you."

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What should you do if your crush knows you like him?

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This could be a great thing, as it means that he's aware of your feelings for him. If he doesn't share them, try to get to know him better and stay friends. His feelings could change.

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What if your crush ignores you?

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If your crush ignores you, it could be because they don't like you. Maybe you've asked them out before, and it's their way of telling you to back off. Try to give them some space.

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What should I do if I have a crush on someone I used to date, but I broke up with him?

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Try reaching out and starting a conversation with your ex. This will allow you to see how he feels about you, and if he's at least willing to still be friends. You can use these friendly interactions to start moving your relationship back to where it once was.

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