Q&A for How to Talk to the Girl Who Likes You

It depends on if you like her back or not. If you do, just be friendly and go for it. If you don't, there's nothing wrong with not pursuing this further. You don't have to do anything special. Just treat her like a person!

The best thing you can do when talking to someone you like is to be yourself. That's it. Just be the best version of yourself. If she likes you, it's obvious that she likes you for who you are. That means you don't have to put on a show or act a certain way. This realization should really take some of the pressure off.

Women are guilty of this too, but something that a lot of men don't do is set loving boundaries. For example, if you are talking to your girlfriend about an issue but don't know how to help, it's completely acceptable to say, "I'm not sure how to help you. This may be something you should talk about with a friend." You should also avoid ghosting, even if you don't want to hurt the woman. Most women would at least like a message that explains that you are not a match. I really think that that would be a kindness for men to do that.

Nicely tell her you aren't interested in dating her. You don't want to hurt her feelings, but it's also not good to lead her own.

Start by making eye contact and smiling. Then, make a comment about your surroundings. This will break the ice and help you get a conversation going.

Speak in a way that’s kind and sincere. Ask her how she’s doing and talk to her about things you know she’s interested in. Give her genuine compliments from time to time, like “Hey, I love your shirt!” or “You were awesome in class today.” Don’t be afraid to crack a joke now and then so she can see your sense of humor!

That depends on what kind of vibe you have with her. If she seems to enjoy chatting with you and is usually quick to answer your texts, texting every day might be fine. If she doesn’t answer, or if she keeps her answers really brief and not very friendly, leave her alone for a while. She’ll probably reach out if she’s ready to chat again.

Be the best version of yourself when you’re around them! Be kind, helpful, and positive, and let your sense of humor shine. Take care of your appearance and wear clothes that help you feel confident. Show an interest in them and the things that they enjoy and care about.