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    How do you get a feral cat to trust you once they're inside?
    Francine Miller
    Certified Animal Behavior Counselor
    Francine Miller is an Applied Animal Behavior Counselor and Founder of Call Ms Behaving, a behavior counseling service for dogs and cats in San Diego, California. With over 16 years of experience, Francine specializes in treating behavior problems such as aggression, separation anxiety, phobias, fear reactions, destructiveness, urine marking, and compulsive behaviors. She uses a behavioral management and modification plan that is positive reinforcement only. She holds a Diploma in Canine Behavior Counseling from the American College of Applied Science (ACAS). Francine has completed all coursework toward an MS in Applied Animal Behavior Science and Family Counseling for Companion Animals from the American College of Applied Science (ACAS). She is a certified Associate of the International Association of Animal Behavior Consultants (IAABC) and a member of the Pet Professional Guild.
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    You'll need to be patient and move at the cat's pace. I would start by putting them in a single room with everything they need, including toys, food, water, and a litter box. Learn to read the cat's body language, and only attempt to approach them when they're relaxed. If you respect the cat and their space, they'll quickly learn that you're a friend and not an enemy.
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    A feral cat I feed is pregnant. What kind of shelter can I make for her to have her kittens?
    Pippa Elliott, MRCVS
    Veterinarian
    Dr. Elliott, BVMS, MRCVS is a veterinarian with over 30 years of experience in veterinary surgery and companion animal practice. She graduated from the University of Glasgow in 1987 with a degree in veterinary medicine and surgery. She has worked at the same animal clinic in her hometown for over 20 years.
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    It's likely she will chose her own shelter but by offering a safe option she may decide to use it. Try a plastic crate laid on its side and if you can, improvise protection at the front so she feels protected. Locate the crate in a quiet corner away from other animals and traffic, perhaps concealed behind trees or bushes. Also, try to face the entrance out of the wind and rain so that it doesn't blow in. Avoid using newspaper or towels as bedding, as these easily become saturated if water does get in. A deep bed of good quality straw is warm and provides some drainage if the weather gets in. If you can, also provide a separate box for food and water, placed close by. This allows you to add more food but without disturbing the nest. Best of luck to you and your feral fur friend.
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    A feral cat comes into the house to eat as long as I leave door open for escape. Now he's older and he has started to spray. How do I discourage this? We expect he will be trapped & neutered within a week or two.
    Pippa Elliott, MRCVS
    Veterinarian
    Dr. Elliott, BVMS, MRCVS is a veterinarian with over 30 years of experience in veterinary surgery and companion animal practice. She graduated from the University of Glasgow in 1987 with a degree in veterinary medicine and surgery. She has worked at the same animal clinic in her hometown for over 20 years.
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    It is an unfortunate fact the entire male cats will spray urine in order to mark their territory. It's a back-handed compliment I'm afraid, as he obviously sees your home as worth marking as his. Neutering will help but you also need to clean away any lingering odor (using an ammonia-free cleaning product) so that he is not drawn back to the same spot to mark it again.
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    How long does it take to tame a feral cat?
    Pippa Elliott, MRCVS
    Veterinarian
    Dr. Elliott, BVMS, MRCVS is a veterinarian with over 30 years of experience in veterinary surgery and companion animal practice. She graduated from the University of Glasgow in 1987 with a degree in veterinary medicine and surgery. She has worked at the same animal clinic in her hometown for over 20 years.
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    It's a matter of "if" a feral cat can be tamed, rather than "when." All cats are individuals so an occasional feral may learn to trust people, but this is likely to take months to years, rather than days to weeks.
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    Can feral cats become tame?
    Pippa Elliott, MRCVS
    Veterinarian
    Dr. Elliott, BVMS, MRCVS is a veterinarian with over 30 years of experience in veterinary surgery and companion animal practice. She graduated from the University of Glasgow in 1987 with a degree in veterinary medicine and surgery. She has worked at the same animal clinic in her hometown for over 20 years.
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    Sadly, it's the exception rather than the rule, that a feral cat is tamed. This goes back to a lack of socialization as a kitten. The youngster grows up having learned to keep a distance from people as they are a potential threat. This early learning is extremely difficult to overcome.
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    Can a feral cat become a house pet?
    Pippa Elliott, MRCVS
    Veterinarian
    Dr. Elliott, BVMS, MRCVS is a veterinarian with over 30 years of experience in veterinary surgery and companion animal practice. She graduated from the University of Glasgow in 1987 with a degree in veterinary medicine and surgery. She has worked at the same animal clinic in her hometown for over 20 years.
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    A truly feral cat (rather than a stray) is unlikely to make a good house pet. They lack the basic exposure to humans during the crucial socialization period. This means the cat is life-long hard-wired to be distrustful of people, and do whatever it takes to avoid being close to them.
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    Can you tame a 5 to 6 month old cat?
    Community Answer
    You can tame feral cats of any age if you have the time and patience. Gaining their trust is the hardest thing. Feral cats come with many problems. It is a long, hard road taming them. However, if you are a true cat lover, you will put up with all the problems they bring because once you have tamed them, they are the most loving, affectionate animals you could ever hope for.
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    My feral cat started to purr and knead. Is this a step in the right direction?
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    Yes, purring and kneading behavior tells you that your feral cat is contented and happy.
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    Outside my house there was a mom and 3 (5-month-old kittens). I trapped a kitten and decided to adopt her, did I do the right thing? Or should I let her be with her mom?
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    Once a cat is 8 weeks old, it is okay to take it from its mother. If you want to go the extra mile, trap the mother, take her to the vet and have her spayed, and release her again, or see if you can get mom and the other kittens adopted out to friends/family.
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    My feral kitten is 7 months old, socialized with me, and has been inside for a month. He attacks me and the other cat for no reason. He can be sweet and loving but then (and not because of over petting) later he attacks. I have to stop this behaviour as I'm covered with bite and scratch marks.
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    Young cats play and being scratched and bitten is part of them playing with other kittens usually. Here is acting it out with with you and the other cat and testing boundaries. You can't bring a young cat in and then put it back out. This is cruel. Both of your cats need a place in the house, which is their own bit of territory. Buy toys for the young cat and play with him. He's young and full of life and needs lots of play. Wear an oven glove when you play with him to avoid being scratched and bitten. In time, it'll calm down but always promptly remove your hand when he bites, so that he learns it is not appreciated.
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    How can I tame a cat without bringing it into my house?
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    Try buying or building it a small shelter, and be sure to leave some food and water out. The shelter should be able to fit at least two cats. The cat will most likely start sleeping in the shelter and eating and drinking from the bowls you set out. The feral cat will start associating shelter, food, and water with your property.
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    I feed a feral cat who allows me to stroke her around her head but attacks me when I rub her belly During the day she disappears and comes back at night. What should I do?
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    Feral cats are basically wild, so you are doing well if she lets you touch her head. Cats only let someone touch their belly if they are totally at ease and sure they won't be hurt. Respect her boundaries and you'll earn more of her trust. As for her daytime-nighttime habits, even domestic cats disappear during the day, so your feral cat is probably doing what all cats do......hunting for mice!
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    Yesterday I adopted a stray cat that's older. It has not yet been to the vet, it did not let me pick it up. It purrs, eats, grooms itself and is toilet trained. How long will it be before I can pick it up?
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    Most cats don't actually like being picked up. They merely tolerate it, but prefer not to be picked up. Let your cat come to you when it is ready. Your cat is already a part of your family if it is happy for you to pet it a little bit and 'picking it up' does not define its membership of your family. Also, take your cat to the vet for a check up, to ensure that it is healthy and not someone else's cat.
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    I have been feeding a feral cat and it's taken a long time for him to trust and come indoors. However, when he as eaten his food, he wants to rub round my legs but starts to growl if I move from him; it's as if he is controlling me.
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    He is trying to control you because he is territorial and he is afraid of losing you. If you haven't had him neutered, do so and keep him in the house for a few weeks so that he knows this is his home. Neutering him will calm him down. Also, you need to reverse the roles very gently so that he sees you as his leader and comes to depend on you. He is so used to depending on himself and being his own boss and he wants to be your boss. Buy him toys and play with him. Ferals usually have to be taught how to play as it is not a part of their everyday life in the wild. It may take quite a while to achieve the changes you want but if you persevere, it will be worth it.
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    There's a feral cat that I caught in November. She's about 5, and has been feral her whole life. She's in a big cage in our barn right now, and she lets me pet her. I've never heard her purr or meow. How long before she'll forget about being feral and come to accept me?
    Community Answer
    If the cat is aged about 5 and has always been feral, then she will not be able to forget about being feral. Although she may like some human company, especially if you feed her, she is a wild cat. Feral cats live in a large community, so keeping her locked up may be a little cruel. Why not release her? If she wants to stay with you, she will return.
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    I don't have a feral cat, but a very scared cat we got from people who never gave him attention. It's been 3 days and he still doesn't come out and just hides away in the bedroom cupboards.
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    Use toys, catnip and treats or wet food to encourage your cat to come out. Place these lures near his hiding place, but make sure he has to come out a bit to reach them. Shake the bag of treats every time you give him some to condition your cat to respond to the sound. It will take a while to get him acclimatized, especially if he wasn't given a lot of attention before, so give him time and patience, and just make sure he is being fed and watered.
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    I am pet sitting my friend's 2.5-month-old kitten. We have a cat already, and now our cat is acting feral! She is normally so loving, why such a big change in personality?
    Miss Merlin
    Community Answer
    Your cat might be jealous because you have been around another cat, and she can smell it. If the kitten is staying at your house, your cat may take time to get used to it. Be sure to give your cat plenty of attention and love.
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    How can I tame a cat if I'm just eleven years old?
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    I am close to your age, and I have tamed many cats. The first step is to use food. Hold out your hand with a piece of food and let the cat smell it. Then try to pet it. If the cat runs or hisses, go away and try again tomorrow. Get your parents' permission before trying to tame a cat so they can make sure it's safe first.
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    My cat ran away. Kevin was semi feral when we got him at the shelter, and when we got a dog, he ran away. My neighbor feeds him, and I see him go up to her house to get the food. We still have a dog, so how do I get him to trust me?
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    Start leaving food near your house for him; however, he will be scared of the dog, so Kevin may not come near when the dog is around.
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    If a feral cat is sick or dying, is it usual for them to hide all of a sudden?
    Community Answer
    Yes, it is usual for them to hide. A wild animal that is sick or dying will try not to show it because if appears weak or sick, it could be attacked. If they are dying, they will often go off to die in seclusion because that is their normal reaction for self-caring.
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    I have a female cat that is about 1.5 years old and she is scared to death. I have had her for 2 weeks and she is still hiding in the box and hissing.
    Community Answer
    Cats are very skittish, some more than others. Take time to sit next to the box for a couple minutes and be sure to not make any noises that may scare your cat. This can help your cat adjust to you and realize you are harmless. Even if your cat doesn't come out of the box, at least it has an idea that it is safe. Do this frequently, and offer your cat plenty of food and treats so it gets more comfortable.
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    My aunt and uncle have two feral cats. One is female and one is male. What can I do to catch them? The male's leg looks broken and his eyes are messed up.
    FeralCatMom
    Community Answer
    You should try to trap them in a humane trap. Make sure to place a towel on top of it and place their favorite food in the very back. If you only catch one, place it in a travel carrier with some food and water in it. Repeat to catch the other one and get the injured cat to the vet.
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    I found out that my feral cat has HIV. I have two indoor cats that he has come into contact with and the neighbor's dog is constantly jumping the fence and attacking him. What should I do?
    Community Answer
    If your feral cat has HIV you should take him to the vet for treatment if possible. Feline HIV is not transmittable to dogs and is only transmitted to other cats through deep wounds or blood transfusions so your other cats are likely fine. Talk to your neighbor about controlling their dog, though.
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    What is the earliest a cat can become pregnant?
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    Cats can become pregnant as young as four months of age, which means having a litter when they are six months old. If you want to avoid this, it is essential that you get your cats neutered.
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    I am fostering a semi-feral cat in my bathroom. She went into a small carrier that I placed in the room two days ago and will not come out to use the litter box or to eat. What should I do now?
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    It might be time for some tough love. She will fall ill if she stays like that. If the carrier has a removable top, take it off and slide the cat out. If not, just pick it up by the back end and shake it a little. Put on some hand protection and drag her out. Be sure that the food, water, and litter is abundant and very clean. And most importantly, place a box in the room for her to hide and feel safe in. Stay in the room and talk to her, and gently attempt to pet her. Give her space when she needs it. Be patent.
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    How do I regain trust after I startled the cat?
    Community Answer
    Try not to make any sudden movements or loud noises. Leave treats out, and give it time. She will gradually get used to you again.
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    I have a feral cat that I feed and shelter outdoors. She won't let me get too close to her (she is 4). We are moving, how can I get her to the new house?
    Community Answer
    Consider buying a humane cat trap, your local animal shelter may loan one to you. When you have the cage begin feeding your cat close to the cage door, gradually moving the food nearer the cage each day until the cat is used to seeing the cage. When the cat is comfortable with this, move the food into the cage and the door will automatically close shut.
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    I am taking care of a feral cat, but I already have a few rescue cats. What do I do?
    Community Answer
    If you can no longer feed the cat, you should consider contacting your local animal shelter for help. The shelter should be able to offer you advice or even rehome the cat if possible.
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    How can I trim a feral cat's nails if she isn't friendly?
    Community Answer
    Cats' nails don't really need trimming and could even be bad for them. Just provide a scratching post or board.
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    I have been feeding two feral cats. One of them will stay inside, but her sister won't. What can I do to bring the other one inside?
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    Maybe the other cat is happier outside. Feral cats are near to wild cats and tend not to like human smells, like your body smell or the smell of your home. Feed the cat outside and leave the door to your home open. Maybe, in time, the cat will get used to the smell of humans and come inside.
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