Questions to Ask a Girl over Text: 70+ Flirty, Funny & Deep Examples

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Do you like a girl and want to impress her over text with fun, insightful, and engaging questions? It can be intimidating to start a text conversation with someone you like, but when you lead with confidence and keep your questions open-ended, you’ll keep the chat flowing easily. If you need some inspiration, keep reading! We’ve prepared a handy list to help you ask a girl questions over text, complete with funny, flirty, deep, and personal example questions.

Things You Should Know

  • Start with a casual icebreaker question. Ask her about how her day is doing, or flatter her by asking for some quick advice.
  • Ask funny hypothetical questions, or ask her to tell you an entertaining story. Get a little flirty and slip her a sweet compliment.
  • Pose some deeper questions as you get closer to her. Ask about her values, influences, and relationship expectations to see if you’re compatible.
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    Eat anything delicious (or awful) today? 😋
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    What’s a funny thing that happened to you today?
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    What was the last thing that made you laugh?
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    Working on anything awesome today?
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    What should I watch on TV tonight?
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    What app do you think I should download on my phone?
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    What’s the best piece of advice you’ve ever gotten?
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    Help! Which shirt should I wear this weekend?
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    What’s your favorite type of conversation to have with someone?
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    Okay, I’ll answer any 3 questions with total honesty. Ready?
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    Anything weighing on your mind right now? Feel free to use me as a sounding board!
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    What’s the most eye-catching photo on your camera roll right now?
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    Look at this cool pic I took on my walk today! Do you have any fun photos to share?
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    I am absolutely DYING to see a puppy pic! Could you send your cutest photo?
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    What kind of trouble are you getting into today? 😉
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    When are you free? Want to go on a little adventure?
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    How about dinner at my place tomorrow?
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    Got any travel plans in the future?
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    What’s the lamest pickup line you’ve ever been given?
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    Ever do something weird to grab someone’s attention?
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    What’s the most bizarre dream you’ve ever had?
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    If you could have a single superpower, what would it be?
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    What are 3 things you’d bring to a desert island?
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    If you were an actress, what kind of movies would you star in?
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    Would you rather your only mode of transportation be a donkey or a giraffe?
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    Quick: what are your top 5 movies?
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    Who are your favorite artists?
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    What’s the coolest place you’ve ever visited and why?
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    What’s your favorite thing to do in your free time?
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    What would you say is your strongest skill?
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    How’s your big project going? It sounded so cool the last time we talked!
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    What kind of things were you into as a kid?
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    Where’s your hometown? Did you like growing up there?
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    Got any siblings? What are they like?
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    What country would your dream job be in?
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    What’s on your bucket list?
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    What are 3 places you want to live in?
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    Is your hotness the real cause of global warming? 🔥
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    Are you tired after running through my dreams all last night?
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    I think I need a late-night snack. Can I have you?
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    Where did you learn to be so beautiful?
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    How did you get such an amazing fashion sense? I need to know your secrets!
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    Pretty, charming, and an absolute genius? How is there so much cool in one person?
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    Miss me yet? 😉
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    When was the last time we talked? We have to change that.
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    In a single sentence, how would you define romance?
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    Is there anything I can do to make you feel more special? 😘
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    What’s the perfect way to ask someone out?
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    What do marriage and commitment mean to you?
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    What are the 3 things you value most in life?
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    What do you think is the best part of your personality?
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    Do you believe in second chances?
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    Looking back, what have you done so far to give you the most satisfaction in your life?
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    Do you see yourself ever having kids?
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    Where do you see yourself in the next 5 years?
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    How do you define “soulmates”?
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    Are you more of an adventurer or homebody?
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    What do you wish you had more time for?
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    What is the healthiest and unhealthiest thing you do regularly?
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    Who brings you the most joy in your life?
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