What Is My Love Personality?

Take this quiz to find out how it feels to be loved by you.

Love. It’s one of the most powerful forces on earth, but did you know that it affects us all differently?

How does it feel to be loved by you? We’ll tell you your unique love personality—just answer a few questions and go with your gut.

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Questions Overview

1. In your mind, the ideal relationship is built on a foundation of…
  1. Mutual respect.
  2. Fiery passion.
  3. Complete trust.
  4. Unwavering love.
2. How do you feel about romance movies and books?
  1. Pass. Those things are total fantasy.
  2. They’re my guilty pleasure.
  3. I absolutely love them.
  4. They’re fine now and again.
3. Do you believe in true love?
  1. Absolutely.
  2. I think so.
  3. I don’t think so.
  4. Not at all.
4. What’s the most romantic way two people could get together?
  1. Second chance: they used to be in love, but fate has given them another opportunity to make the relationship work.
  2. Enemies to lovers: they used to hate each other, but then they fell in love.
  3. Forced proximity: fate keeps bringing them together by chance and they bond in the process.
  4. Forbidden love: they’re not supposed to be together, but they just can’t fight the passion!
5. Your weekend is wide open. How do you make plans?
  1. I don’t: I just go wherever my mood takes me.
  2. Early and obsessively. Everything is scheduled down to the minute.
  3. I let other people make plans, and I tag along.
  4. I leave it up to the universe. If I’m meant to do something this weekend, plans will come up.
6. Would you say you’re a risk-taker?
  1. No, definitely not.
  2. Totally. No risk, no reward!
  3. Sure. Isn’t life all about adventure?
  4. I wouldn’t say I play it safe, but I don’t tend to take risks unless I have to.
7. Say your partner did something that hurt your feelings. How would you react?
  1. I tell them directly.
  2. I beat around the bush a little, but eventually come out with it.
  3. I wait for them to notice I’m upset and bring it up themselves.
  4. I hide my pain and just try to move past it as fast as possible.
8. You and your partner (or future partner) have to be apart for a significant period of time. How does this make you feel?
  1. Full of dread. How will we survive being apart? I’ll die without them!
  2. I’m considering breaking up. What’s the point of continuing on if we can’t be together?
  3. Sad, but hopeful. We’ll make it through! We’ll visit when we can, send care packages, and have nightly phone calls.
  4. Fine—I’m following them wherever they go. There’ll be no separation on my watch!
9. How would you describe the feeling of falling in love?
  1. Nerve-wracking
  2. Exhilarating
  3. Passionate
  4. Fun
10. What does your dream first date involve?
  1. The classics: a Saturday night movie and dinner, and at the end of the date, a romantic kiss on the front porch.
  2. Something totally unexpected and new, like sky-diving or ghost-hunting—it’ll be a date we’ll never forget!
  3. Just hanging out in a cafe or bar and chatting for hours.
  4. Running errands together. Talking while grocery shopping or exercising is a perfect way to get to know someone and see how well they fit into your life!
11. How do you deal with heartbreak?
  1. I don’t: I tend to find a new partner as quickly as I can.
  2. What’s to deal with? The relationship didn’t work out. Life goes on.
  3. I wallow for days and watch all my comfort movies on repeat while gorging on my favorite snacks.
  4. I turn to my friends and family for support. I couldn’t do this without them.
12. What would you say is your weakness in love?
  1. I can be hard to read at times, and I don’t always say what I’m feeling.
  2. I can overdramatize things and get too far in my own head sometimes.
  3. I fall very hard very fast—but I often lose interest once someone likes me back.
  4. I can occasionally let people walk all over me or become a little codependent.

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What Does an “Ideal Partner” Look Like?

There’s no single definition of a dream partner, and the ideal relationship will be different for everybody. Still, there are a few consistent trademarks of a healthy relationship. They include:

Trust: Trust means being able to rely on your partner and feel in your gut that they have your best interests at heart. Trusting your partner is what helps you feel safe and secure in the relationship.

Honesty: Honesty is, of course, tightly linked to trust. You’ll probably find it hard to trust someone who isn’t very honest—but it can also be hard to be honest with someone you don’t trust. In a healthy relationship, both partners will feel secure enough to be honest with each other and to be their authentic selves.

Mutual respect: Mutual respect means you and your partner demonstrate understanding, appreciation, and empathy for each other, even if you disagree or don’t get where the other person is coming from. Mutual respect ensures both parties feel valued and appreciated in the relationship.

Communication: Misunderstandings occur in every relationship, but how you navigate disagreements is crucial to the success of your relationship. Being able to express yourself openly, honestly, and empathically, and to listen to your partner with patience and respect, is the cornerstone of any healthy relationship.

Effort: No relationship is perfect, and every relationship goes through its ups and downs. But it’s essential that, even in the midst of those downs, you feel confident that your partner is trying to make things better, to keep your love alive, and to be there for you as much as they can.

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