What’s My Sexual Personality?

Take this quiz to find out what you’re like in bed!

Are you adventurous in the bedroom? Sensitive and gentle? Are you a giver, or do you like attention?

Answer these 10 intimate questions, and we’ll tell you about your sexual personality, and whether you’re an adventurer, casual, romantic, current, giver, or social butterfly. Don’t worry, your answers are safe with us!

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Questions Overview

1. I like to try new things sexually—I fantasize about new things during the day.
  1. Agree
  2. Somewhat agree
  3. Somewhat disagree
  4. Disagree
2. What's your top non-sexual turn-on?
  1. Strong hands
  2. Excellent manners and chivalry
  3. An unpredictable personality
  4. Captivating eyes
3. I generally think that there’s nothing wrong with hooking up with a lot of different people if you want. It can help you explore your interests!
  1. Agree
  2. Somewhat agree
  3. Somewhat disagree
  4. Disagree
4. What role do you like to take in the bedroom?
  1. I like to take charge.
  2. Sometimes I'm in charge, sometimes I'm not.
  3. It depends. I like to feel out the vibe.
  4. I like to follow the lead.
5. I mostly enjoy hooking up with people because it helps me to feel closer to them emotionally.
  1. Agree
  2. Somewhat agree
  3. Somewhat disagree
  4. Disagree
6. Would you ever hook up with someone in public?
  1. Definitely. That sounds like fun!
  2. Maybe. It'd have to be at least a little private.
  3. Probably not. That sounds risky!
  4. Never. I'd be too embarrassed!
7. The best part of hooking up is pleasure, enjoyment, and fun.
  1. Agree
  2. Somewhat agree
  3. Somewhat disagree
  4. Disagree
8. You just hooked up with someone. What are you likely feeling right now?
  1. I feel content and satisfied, like I just had a delicious meal.
  2. I feel excited and giddy, like I just won a prize.
  3. I feel romantic and emotional, like I just connected with someone I care about.
  4. I feel good, but a little unsatisfied. I need more!
9. I really like talking about hooking up—even with my friends.
  1. Agree
  2. Somewhat agree
  3. Somewhat disagree
  4. Disagree
10. Would you ever hook up with more than one person at the same time?
  1. Definitely. The more, the merrier!
  2. Probably, but it depends on who I'm hooking up with.
  3. Maybe. I'd have to feel totally comfortable and set ground rules, though.
  4. Never. I only want to focus on one person at a time.

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Your spiciness level:<\/b> 70%

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Your intimacy level:<\/b> 100%<\/b>

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Your intimacy level:<\/b> 100%<\/b>

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Your spiciness level:<\/b> 70%

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Your spiciness level:<\/b> 60%

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Having Healthier (and Better) Sex

Everyone has their own attitude toward the bedroom. Some love sex and approach it with a wide-open mind, while others prefer to keep any mention of it strictly to the bedroom. There’s no single right way to have sex, but you could say there are wrong ways, like anything that puts you or your partner in emotional distress or physical danger.

Take a look at these tips for healthier, safer, and better sex , and keep them in mind the next time you’re under the covers.

Consent is a must.
Before you even head to the bedroom, you need consent from your partner to have sex. The best kind of consent is verbal, when your partner tells you that they want to do this. Often, it’s not enough to just “Read the signs.” When in doubt, ask! Say, “Is this okay?” And remember, consent can be revoked at any time. If you or your partner decides it’s not quite right, take a break, get some water, wind down.

Know your status, and use protection.
It’s vital that both you and your partner know both your STD statuses. It’s not fair, not to mention dangerous, to have sex without disclosing any infections or diseases. If you’re not sure, now’s a great time to head to a clinic and get checked. Most STDs are entirely treatable, it’s just a matter of catching them early. Then, once you’re good to go, use protection to help prevent the spread of diseases —even if you think there’s no chance.

Communicate with your partner.
Sex is all about communication and maintaining boundaries . You might have more or fewer boundaries than your partner, which is why it’s important to make those clear, even while you’re in the process of having fun. A simple, “I’m not feeling that,” is enough to let the other person know you’d rather try something else. But also, don’t hesitate to tell them what you do want! It’s more fun if you’re both enjoying yourselves and making the right moves.

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