How to Relieve Ear Pain at Night

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Earaches can keep anyone up at night, and it's painful and frustrating when you or your child are suffering from one. It’s important to have a doctor diagnose and treat the root cause of the earache as soon as possible to help speed up the recovery process. Most earaches will clear up within 2-3 days, but in the meantime, you can ease the pain with warm compresses and over-the-counter medications as needed. However, if your ear pain doesn't clear up or it's accompanied by other symptoms, you may need to see a doctor to make sure something else isn't wrong. [1]

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Easing the Pain without Medication

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    Run a washcloth under warm water. Wring out the excess water from the cloth and lay it over your ear. The warmth from the water will provide some relief. [2]
    • Re-warm the washcloth as often as needed.
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    Warm or cool compresses can both help relieve pain, so if one isn't working, try the other. For a cool compress, dip a washcloth in cold water and wring it out. Lay it over the ear and leave it there to help with the pain. [3]
    • You can re-wet the washcloth as needed.
    • You can also use ice wrapped in a washcloth. However, do not leave ice on for more than 20 minutes. You can leave cool compresses made with just water on as long as you want.
    • You may find that alternating heat and cold is helpful. [4]
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    Cigarette smoke decreases the ears' ability to drain fluid, which can make earaches and infections worse. Ask smokers to go outside if anyone in your household has an earache. [5]
    • This tip is also helpful for preventing earaches.
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    Sleeping a bit more upright may help the fluids drain, relieving pressure. Simply put an extra pillow or 2 under your head or lift your child's head up the same way. [6]
    • Only do this if your child is old enough to use pillows.
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    Sometimes, earaches arise due to tension headaches. Massaging the area behind the ear may help. Place your fingers just behind your ear and rub down toward the back of your neck. Then, repeat the same downward motion as you go under your ear, eventually moving to just in front of your ear. [7]
    • This motion may help drain fluids.
    • It may also provide relief when earaches arise from conditions like temporomandibular joint and muscle disorders. [8]
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    Eating something using a sucking motion can relieve pressure in your ears. Older children can also suck on hard candy for pain relief. For younger kids, try a pacifier or even a bottle or breast. [9]
    • Keep in mind that hard candies are a choking hazard for children, particularly under the age of 7. If your children are under 7, you might try something else that uses a sucking motion, such as a popsicle before bed.
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Using Medication

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    Use these over-the-counter medications to help ease earaches by taking them or giving them to your child at bedtime. If you're treating a child, make sure to give them the children's version and always read the package to give the child an appropriate dose. [10]
    • Avoid giving aspirin to kids as it puts them at risk for Reye's Syndrome. Also, don't give ibuprofen to babies under 6 months. [11]
    • Always talk to your doctor before starting a medication.
    • With many pain relievers, you can give another dose in 4 hours, so check the package.
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    To use analgesic or pain-relieving ear drops, lie down on your side or have your child lie down with the affected ear facing up. Place the dropper just above the ear canal and drip a few drops in. Stay in this position for a few minutes to give the ear drops a chance to sink in. [12]
    • These typically are prescribed for the pain, though some may have antibiotics in them.
    • Ear drops are available over-the-counter, but you should talk to your doctor first before using them.
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    Antibiotics will help clear the infection if it's bacterial, relieving pain. If you've already seen a doctor who's given you or your child antibiotics, make sure to take all of the prescribed medicine, even if it seems like you're better. Otherwise, the infection could return. [13]
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Visiting the Doctor

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    Look for swelling in or around the ear, a stiff neck, and unsteady balance. Also, if your child seems confused or has a fever over 104 °F (40 °C) with the earache, you should visit the doctor. [14]
    • Also, call if the earache seems severe and doesn't respond to an over-the-counter pain reliever in 2 hours.
    • If you have a compromised immune system due to conditions like cancer, sickle cell disease, or HIV, see the doctor with an earache. Organ transplants or oral steroids can also cause issues with the immune system.
    • It's also important to see the doctor immediately if a sharp object in the ear caused the pain.
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    If you're caring for a child under 2 with ear pain in both ears, that could be a sign of a more serious condition. Check their temperature; if it's over 102.2 °F (39.0 °C), see the doctor. [15]
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    This is especially true in kids. Most of the time, the doctor will want to wait it out a bit anyway. Ear infections and earaches are not always caused by bacteria, so antibiotics aren't helpful all the time. However, if it persists, you should talk to your doctor so that it doesn't develop into a worse infection. [16]
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    If you or your child are getting ear infections constantly, it may be time to see an ear, nose, and throat (ENT) specialist. Talk to your family doctor about a referral. An ENT doctor can help decide if further treatment is needed, such as inserting tubes in the ears. [17]
    • Tubes help open up the ear, allowing fluid to drain, which is particularly helpful in children.
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      • Kids tend to get earaches more frequently than adults, mainly because their eustachian tubes are smaller and they can't fight infections off as well as adults. They are more likely to get an earache after having a respiratory condition, such as a cold or the flu. [20]
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      To relieve your ear pain at night, try putting a warm, damp washcloth over your ear, which should provide some relief. If that doesn’t work, try using cool water instead, or alternate between the 2. You can also sleep with an extra pillow or 2 under your head, which can relieve some of the pressure on your ears. If your ear pain comes from a tension headache, gently massage the area behind your ear, rubbing down toward the back of your neck. Over-the-counter painkillers, like acetaminophen or ibuprofen, can also help to relieve ear pain. For more tips from our Medical co-author, including how to treat ear pain with prescription medication, read on!

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