A roast is a classic form of comedy where you poke fun at someone who’s agreed to be your victim. It’s about balancing sick burns with genuine appreciation. Lately, the internet’s a great place to go if you’re looking for a roast, with subreddits and AI features dedicated to the form. We’ll tell you more about roasts and trends like AI roasts and Reddit roast threads . Then, we talked to comedians Manuel Garavito and Kendall Payne to show you how to write your own roasts .
AI Roast Me Challenge Explained
The AI roast me challenge is an online trend where users ask AI bots like ChatGPT to look at their social media profile or selfies and come up with a good, fun, lighthearted insult. Users then post these roasts on places like TikTok or Twitter/X for other people to see and appreciate.
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How to Ask AI to Roast You
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Open your AI program of choice. For this trend, most people tend to use ChatGPT , but you can use virtually any text-based AI program, like Deepseek or even the Instagram AI bot , Meta AI , or the AI assistant on your phone.
- As long as the AI can receive text prompts and output text responses, it’ll work to roast you.
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2Give the AI a link to your social media and ask it to roast your profile. Most people who take part in the trend feed the AI a link or screenshot of their social media profile, like their Instagram page, Twitter/X profile, or Facebook page. In the same prompt, ask the AI to come up with a clever, witty, and not-too-brutal roast. For example, you might use the prompts:
- “Follow this [link] to my social media and come up with a roast of me that’s funny, smart, and ultimately uplifting.”
- “Look at this photo of me and come up with a clever, scathing roast that also compliments me.”
- Or, if you’ve been using the program for a while, you might ask it to roast you based on your previous interactions with it.
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3Be aware that AI tools come with some privacy concerns. AI programs scrape your personal data in order to train themselves. When you ask an AI to roast you, you’re requesting that it access your personal information, like your social media posts, which may include your identity, location, and other sensitive information that AI might sell to third parties, or which might eventually leak. [3] X Research source
- Also, be aware that the AI will follow your instructions, but might need some tuning. It may be a little too brutal or harsh, so add detail to your prompt, asking it to go easy on you if you’re worried.
- AI has also been criticized for copyright infringement and its environmental impact. If you use AI, it’s good to be aware of these aspects. [4] X Research source
Participating in Reddit Roasts
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1Visit r/RoastMe on Reddit to see community roasts. r/RoastMe is a Reddit community dedicated to roasting volunteers who post their photos online. The roasts are mostly based on the users’ appearance, but sometimes Redditors request that other users also look at their post history and roast them based on their profile.
- For the most part, r/RoastMe users know how far is too far, but this is the internet, and not everyone can behave accordingly.
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2Log in and post your own photo to get roasted by strangers. If you’re brave enough to get roasted by Reddit users, log in to your profile or make a new one. Then, after reading the rules on the r/RoastMe subreddit, make a new post that includes a snappy title and an image of you. The image needs to include yourself holding a sign with your Reddit username written on it for the roast to be verified, for privacy concerns.
- Your title might be, “Hey Reddit! I’m new here, but don’t hold back,” or, “Feel free to lurk my profile for some material.”
- Including your age and gender also helps users conduct themselves appropriately.
- Again, this is for the brave-of-heart only. It’s fun to get roasted by friends, but getting roasted by online strangers is a different beast!
How to Roast Anyone
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1Think of their funny traits or good stories you have of them. The key to roasting anyone—and to all comedy—is to know your audience. [5] X Research source If you’re roasting a friend, make a list of silly, funny, or quirky traits they might have. Or, think back to a funny story you remember about them.
- For example, maybe they always put their shoes on the wrong feet, or they won’t eat foods that touch each other on the plate.
- Or, maybe you remember a time you were traveling together and they got you both lost.
EXPERT TIPWriter, Director, & Stand-up ComedianKendall Payne is a Writer, Director, and Stand-up Comedian based in Brooklyn, New York. Kendall specializes in directing, writing, and producing comedic short films. Her films have screened at Indie Short Fest, Brooklyn Comedy Collective, Channel 101 NY, and 8 Ball TV. She has also written and directed content for the Netflix is a Joke social channels and has written marketing scripts for Between Two Ferns: The Movie, Astronomy Club, Wine Country, Bash Brothers, Stand Up Specials and more. Kendall runs an IRL internet comedy show at Caveat called Extremely Online, and a comedy show for @ssholes called Sugarp!ss at Easy Lover. She studied at the Upright Citizens Brigade Theatre and at New York University (NYU) Tisch in the TV Writing Certificate Program.A lot of people overthink when they're trying to write comedy. I think, especially when you're starting out, you just want to write what you know. A lot of people say that, but that's the easiest way to get started. Keep it simple.
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2Think of what those traits or stories say about them. A good roast doesn’t just point out flaws or quirks. Instead, it uses those things to appreciate the person behind them. Think about how your list of fun traits or stories speaks to the person you’re roasting, whether it’s yourself or another person. Try to put a positive, admirable spin on it to avoid speaking too negatively. Garavito says it’s a push-pull of compliments and jabs.
- For example, if they always put their shoes on wrong or get lost, they’re probably someone who’s a little spacey or absentminded, which can be a fun and not-too-sensitive quality to poke fun at.
- Avoid traits and qualities they might be sensitive of. For example, they probably won’t appreciate you poking fun at their illnesses or physical traits they can’t change.
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3Combine the details with the bigger picture to make your roast. Now that you have a list of traits, as well as the quality they speak to, it’s time to devise some funny zingers. Take a look at iconic roasts to get some ideas, but the key is to slightly embarrass the person while also appreciating them. For best results, focus on a lot of tight, snappy jokes with a quick setup and punchline that get straight to the point, rather than long, drawn-out stories. Payne says to take a simple idea and exaggerate or heighten it. For example:
- “Tracy is so ditzy that he once ran a marathon with his shoes on the wrong feet. To his credit, he set a record time and didn’t trip until the finish line. It wasn’t the shoes, though. He literally tripped over the finish line!”
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4Sneak in a compliment to make your roast more lighthearted. A compliment sandwich is a great strategy. Compliment the person you’re roasting, twist the compliment into a jab, then compliment them again. That way, you’re taking care not to go too far, and the roastee feels both appreciated and burned. For example:
- “Stacy’s a great friend. Except when I need help moving. But usually she’s a great friend.”
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References
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/resilience-bullying/201704/why-roasts-are-antidote-bullying-and-narcissism
- ↑ https://www.dazeddigital.com/life-culture/article/64404/1/ai-chatgpt-can-roast-instagram-feed-x-is-it-worth-the-cost-openai-data-scraping
- ↑ https://hai.stanford.edu/news/privacy-ai-era-how-do-we-protect-our-personal-information
- ↑ https://www.dazeddigital.com/life-culture/article/64404/1/ai-chatgpt-can-roast-instagram-feed-x-is-it-worth-the-cost-openai-data-scraping
- ↑ https://www.toastmasters.org/magazine/articles/six-rules-of-humor