Laying out silverware in a specific way may seem at first like much ado about nothing, but it can really add to both the visual appeal and functionality of your dining table. This article tackles many of the questions you’re likely to have about setting silverware for a variety of casual, semi-formal, and formal events. So if you’re suffering from “soup spoon anxiety,” fear not—you’ve come to the right place!
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QuestionHow do you wrap silverware?Tami Claytor is an Etiquette Coach, Image Consultant, and the Owner of Always Appropriate Image and Etiquette Consulting in New York, New York. With over 20 years of experience, Tami specializes in teaching etiquette classes to individuals, students, companies, and community organizations. Tami has spent decades studying cultures through her extensive travels across five continents and has created cultural diversity workshops to promote social justice and cross-cultural awareness. She holds a BA in Economics with a concentration in International Relations from Clark University. Tami studied at the Ophelia DeVore School of Charm and the Fashion Institute of Technology, where she earned her Image Consultant Certification.You can get a string and tie the silverware together with a nice bow, or you could roll the silverware in a paper napkin.
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QuestionI have a knife, fork, spoon and a napkin, how should I set it up?Community AnswerFork to the left of the plate, napkin to the left of the fork (or it may be placed on the plate). Knife to the right of the plate with the blade facing the plate, then the spoon to the right of the knife.
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QuestionWhere should I place the water glass?Community AnswerTo the top right or top left of the plate.
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Tips
- Leave ample space between place settings so guests can sit and move comfortably throughout the meal. Too many place settings will also make the table appear cramped and small. By allowing the guests to spread out, it opens the table to look wider, even if it is just an illusion.Thanks
- Polish your sterling silver before your dinner party so that it does not look tarnished. Sparkling silver enhances a formal setting along with crystal glasses and fine china.Thanks
- Your silverware setting does not need to match. Piecing together a complete set takes time. Replace utensils as you acquire new ones.Thanks
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Warnings
- Do not place utensils on the table that will not be used throughout the meal. This will clutter the table and confuse your guests.Thanks
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References
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