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We’ve all experienced the heartache of trying to get over a crush. It’s hard enough when you only have to see them occasionally, but it can feel nearly impossible when you run into them every day in class or at work. Here's the good news—it’s definitely possible to get them off your mind with some self-compassion, a strong support network, and a little patience. Keep reading for a list of tactics to change your perception of your crush, put some space between you, and cope with your feelings in a healthy way so you can let them go.
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QuestionThere's a boy in my class, and I have had a crush on him for over two years. I really want to get over him, but I just can’t.ItzTheEvEvCommunity AnswerList things you DON’T like about him. It may slowly help you realize he might be better as a friend or just a classmate.
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QuestionCan a 5th grader date a 6th grader?Community AnswerYes, if they like each other and all the parents are OK with it.
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QuestionI have a crush on my neighbor, but I'm in a relationship with the Love of My Life. I'm not making it obvious that I like the neighbor, and I'm actually avoiding him. However, I'm still attracted to him. What should I do?TheGenZArtistCommunity AnswerIf you let your partner know about your crush, they should help you feel validated by acknowledging your feelings and not pressuring you to get over your crush fast. Having his support can help you get over your feelings for your neighbor.
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- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/head-games/201806/3-ways-get-over-your-ex
- ↑ https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a22617662/when-your-crush-is-taken/
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