How to Talk to Your Middle School Crush (Girls)

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Talking to your crush may make your heart race, but it doesn’t have to be scary! There are many ways to approach your crush in middle school, whether it is a simple hello in the hallway or a conversation during lunch. A little bit of flirting can go a long way, especially if you want to ask them to hang out or even to go on a date! With a little bit of courage, you may be able to make your crush’s heart race too!

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Starting Conversations with Your Crush

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    Make sure to say hi when you first see your crush everyday. If you pass them in the hall, wave and smile. [1] If you see them in class, you can say, “Good morning! How’s it going?” This will help your crush notice and remember you. [2]
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    Find an excuse to be near them during the day. If you don’t have assigned seats, you can take the seat next to them in class, or you can eat near them at lunch time.
    • If you want, you can come up to them and say, “Hey, is this seat taken?”
    • If you’re feeling shy about approaching them, ask your friends if they would help you out. One of your friends can take a seat close to your crush, and you can sit next to your friend.
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    A good way to break the ice is to ask your crush questions. Perhaps you need help with a math question or maybe you didn’t catch the homework. Always thank them when they give you the answer. [3]
    • For example, you can say, “Hey, I forgot my book today. Can I look onto yours?”
    • If your teacher says you need to work with a partner, you can ask your crush, “Do you want to work together on this?” Remember to smile as you say it!
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    Once you have started talking, you can casually ask about their interests, hobbies, or plans. Try to find out what they’re interested in, and start talking to them about it. [4]
    • You can start the conversation by saying something about your own interests. For example, you can say, “Do you listen to this band? I have had their new song stuck in my head all day.” If they haven’t heard of the band, you might ask, “So what kind of music do you like?”
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    Look for ways to connect over common interests, hobbies, or practices. If you know they enjoy something, you can start a conversation about it, or you can invite them to do the activity with you.
    • Look at their clothes, bags, and other belongings for clues about what they enjoy. For example, you can say, “I noticed the pins on your bag. Do you like anime too?”
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Flirting with Your Crush

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    Every now and then, give your crush a sincere compliment. [5] Tell them something you like about them. Maybe they’re really funny or smart. Perhaps they have a cool talent or skill. [6]
    • For example, you can say, “You’re an amazing skateboarder. How did you learn all of those tricks?”
    • Don’t shower them with compliments, or they may feel uncomfortable.
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    Laughing shows that you are interested in what they are saying. When your crush says something funny, laugh or giggle gently. Don’t overdo it, though, or it may seem insincere.
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    Your crush may be just as nervous about talking to you as you may be talking to them. To help them out, check your body language. Smile when you catch them looking at you. Instead of crossing your arms, try twirling your hair. [7]
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Chatting outside of School

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    You might invite your crush over to your house, mall, or park to hang out together. Since this is not a date, there is nothing to lose. You and your crush can get to know each other even better!
    • If you’re still uncertain about inviting your date over to just hang out, you can ask them to come over to help you study. This works well if there is an upcoming test that you both need to prepare for.
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    If you’re nervous about hanging out with your crush one-on-one, you can bring them on a group outing instead. This will let you hang out with them without any of the pressure. [9]
    • For example, you can say, “A bunch of us are going to go to the beach this weekend. Do you want to come?”
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    A great way to continue your flirting when school’s out is to get their phone number. Send them a text afterwards to confirm that you got the right number. This will help start a new conversation!
    • If you want, you can simply say, “Hey, can I have your phone number?”
    • If you’re nervous about asking, you can ask instead, “Can I get your phone number in case I have any questions about our homework?”
    • Never send naked images of yourself to someone. These can be spread or posted online. They can also get you both in trouble with the law or school.
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    Friend them on Facebook, or get their SnapChat screen name. You can like their statuses or post a funny article onto their wall. Who knows? Maybe they’ll even comment on your posts.
    • Do not stalk someone on social media. Do not like or comment on their posts daily, or the other person may start to feel uncomfortable with the attention. Use these sites responsibly.
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Admitting Your Feelings

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    Look for hints that they like you back. Before you confess, try to see if there are any hints that your crush might also like you. Ask your friends to see if they're interested, or pay attention to how they treat you. Ask yourself: [10]
    • Does your crush initiate conversations sometimes or do you always start them?
    • How often does your crush text, Snap, or message you?
    • Does your crush smile when they see you?
    • Does your crush ever make excuses to touch you?
    • Do they remember things that you said in the past?
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    Tell them that you like them. When you’re ready, tell your crush that you think of them as more than just a friend. You can tell your crush in person, text them, give them a card, or send them a message over social media. [11]
    • You might say something like, “Hey, I really like you a lot, as more than a friend. I was wondering, do you like me too?”
    • You should always tell your crush yourself. Don’t ask a friend to tell them this for you.
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    If your crush likes you back, congratulations! Now you just need to ask them on a date. [12] If you are both allowed to date, ask them if they would like to see a movie, go to the mall, or attend a school dance together.
    • You can say, “Would you like to go out with me on a date?”
    • You can also say something like, “Do you want to see a movie this weekend with me?”
    • Ask your parents first. Your parents may have rules about when you are allowed to date. [13]
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    Sometimes, your crush may not like you back. That’s OK! It may hurt at first, but over time, it will get better. Distract yourself by getting involved in activities where you will not see your crush. [14]
    • You might feel as though there is something wrong with you, but the truth is, sometimes people just don’t feel the same way about each other. This will pass.
    • Be sure to talk to your friends about it. They can help support you during this time.
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      • Don’t be too subtle! Make sure to be yourself. If your crush does end up liking you, you want them to like the REAL you, not a fake you.
      • Don't use your friends to tell him you like him. Tell him yourself or go through his friends.
      • Be aware of how your crush treats your friends to see if he treats you differently!
      • Act comfortable around them, and they’ll feel less nervous too!
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      3. ↑ http://www.seventeen.com/love/dating-advice/advice/a8377/flirting-101/
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      9. ↑ http://www.seventeen.com/love/dating-advice/a37820/chill-ways-to-flirt-with-your-crush/
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      2. ↑ http://youqueen.com/love/how-to-tell-your-crush-you-like-him-an-honest-male-advice/
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      4. ↑ https://www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/teen/dating-sex/Pages/When-To-Let-Your-Teenager-Start-Dating.aspx
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