PDF download Download Article
Expert astrologists weigh in on the top signs a Taurus guy is into you
PDF download Download Article

Taurus men (born between April 20 and May 20) have a fixed Earth sign that’s ruled by Venus. This means they’re loyal, stable, and extremely sensual, but they’re not always emotionally vulnerable right away. If you like a Taurus man and you’re not sure if he likes you back, you're in luck. We spoke with astrologers Angel Eyedealism and Stina Garbis to put together a list of signs so you’ll know if a Taurus man is falling for you. Read on to learn more!

How to Know If a Taurus Man Likes You

A Taurus man dials up the charm when he likes you. He’ll start a conversation with you, pay you compliments, and ask questions to get to know you better. He’ll want to spend time with you, introduce you to his friends, and get physically close. Taurus men move slowly, but with some patience, he can be yours!

1

He starts conversations in person and over text.

PDF download Download Article
  1. Taurean men are stubborn and only make an effort when they’re certain they genuinely like someone. [1] Think about your past conversations, or texting history . If you find that you’re the only one who starts conversations or that your texts are always longer and more detailed than his, it may sadly be an indication that his interest is only friendly.
    • But if he’s taking some initiative by asking you about your day or texting you just to say “hi,” he probably likes you and wants to see more of you! [2]
    • Taurus men are careful when it comes to their love lives. He might wait to see how well the two of you fit together before starting a conversation. If he’s really interested, he’ll step it up soon. [3]
    • Reader Poll: We asked 1289 wikiHow readers who've dated Taurus men, and 56% of them agreed that the best way to attract them is by giving them space and waiting for them to reach out. [Take Poll] If your Taurus man reaches out first, it’s often a good sign he likes you!
  2. Advertisement
2

He likes to take things slow and steady.

PDF download Download Article
  1. This guy needs time to wrap his head around everything. That includes relationships. You might even think he’s not that into you after all. But if they continue to text you and ask you out week after week for a few months, they’re definitely interested. [4] Their cool, calm exterior masks a passionate and emotional heart thanks to being ruled by Venus, the planet of love and romance. They like to know you’re the right one for them—and that you like them back—before taking things to the next level. But once they decide you’re the one for them, you definitely know.
    • Take a breath and relax. Rushing a Taurus guy when he hasn’t made up his mind about you won’t get you anywhere.
    • The only way to get past this stage is to be patient, or you might push him away.
    • However, if you’ve been dating for a few months, suggest a second date for a week. Just make sure you keep things laid back.
3

He asks you open-ended questions.

PDF download Download Article
  1. Eyedealism says when a Taurus man likes someone, he wants to know they share his views on money, stability, buying a house, and raising children. [5] He’ll ask you lots of questions to make sure you’re the right someone. Consider it a good sign if he begins to ask open-ended questions, which require longer and more detailed responses about your personality or personal beliefs. Open-ended questions mean that he wants to know you better, so the more personal the question, the more interested he is. [6]
    • In fact, hanging out with a Taurus man may at first feel like he’s quizzing you a little, but that’s a good sign too! It means he’s interested and wants to figure out your compatibility right off the bat. [7]
    • Examples of open-ended questions include: “What are your favorite hobbies?” and “Where in the world do you most want to travel?”
  2. Advertisement
4

He pays you compliments.

PDF download Download Article
  1. Taurus men tend to have old-school manners and will pay you compliments to reflect that. [8] Paying compliments is one of the clearest signs out there that a guy is interested . A compliment indicates he’s paying close attention to you – and wants you to know it. [9] When a Taurus man likes you, he’ll also pay you compliments that go deeper than surface level.
    • He will still compliment on your appearance, but he also appreciates more practical things in life and will take note if you do, too. [10]
    • A good example of a physical compliment would be, “I love that shirt - it really brings out the blue in your eyes.”
    • A more practical compliment would be, “You’re so creative, and when we talk, your perspective is so refreshing!”
Quiz

wikiHow Quiz: Does He Like Me?

Some guys can feel like a total mystery. How can you figure out if he likes you as just a friend—or if he wants something more? Take this quiz to find out!
1 of 15

When you two are in a room filled with other people, how often do you catch him staring at you?

5

He shows off when you’re around.

PDF download Download Article
  1. As a fixed sign, Taurus is generally calm, patient, and quiet. They don’t usually like to be the center of attention unless it’s absolutely necessary. [11] However, he’s not one to pass up a challenge…especially in the pursuit of romance. His Venusian nature won’t allow him to take a back seat once he decides he likes you. He'll pull out all the stops and do whatever he can to catch your eye. He’ll wine and dine you while wearing impeccably tailored ensembles from luxury brands. You’ll eat the best food at the most exclusive restaurants…and he won’t even let you ask to split the check. [12]
    • Even when they’re showing off, Taurean men usually prefer to show how great he is rather than point out the flaws of others.
    • While he might get slightly cocky and competitive around you, he’ll still hold on to his cool unless someone really really goes out of their way to make him angry. Then, watch out!
  2. Advertisement
6

He steps outside of his comfort zone.

PDF download Download Article
  1. Taurus tends to be a homebody. He likes comfort, and he’s worked to make his home the coziest place around. [13] As an earth sign, Taurus would be content just hanging around with you all day. So, if he’s willing to leave his happy place when you suggest an outing, there’s a good chance he’s got some strong feelings for you. Be warned, though, that he might not be eager to head out on every new adventure. But when he really likes you, he would rather spend time with you than stay home alone.
    • While he might be willing to follow your lead, don’t forget to plan a few nights in, or his natural stubborn streak might come out.
    • A Taurus guy will be happy to make you a delicious dinner and then spend the rest of the evening cuddling on the couch.
7

He wants to spend quality time with you.

PDF download Download Article
  1. Taurean men may not be open about their true feelings, but they will be open about wanting to see you more. Garbis says, “if they are making any effort to physically see you, then they must be seriously interested in you.” [14] Does he make an effort to hang out with you and offer up an alternative time and place if you ever need to reschedule?
    • Guys who really want to see more of you will make the extra effort to do activities you both enjoy. They’ll also immediately figure out a new plan if one of you can’t make it.
    • Taurus men appreciate the finer things. Suggest grabbing food at a restaurant known for its quality or going to a museum to capture his enthusiasm when he wants to spend time with you. [15]
    • Taurus men also love the outdoors, so a hike would be another promising suggestion for quality time with him .
  2. Advertisement
8

He wants to be physically close to you.

PDF download Download Article
  1. Taurus men are highly physical, and touch is a key love language, says Garbis. [16] On average, men tend to be more comfortable expressing their affection through physical touch, and this is definitely the case with a Taurean. When you’re still trying to figure out if he likes you, the answer is in how close to you he tries to be. Not only will his body language change, but he’ll also try to initiate touches with you more often. Examples of this include:
    • He hugs you in greeting when you see one another.
    • He sits close enough to you that your thighs brush together.
    • He touches your hands repeatedly or brushes against them when you’re walking together.
    • He touches your arm or shoulder multiple times in a conversation.
9

He wants to introduce you to his friends.

PDF download Download Article
  1. Garbis says, “Taurus tends to keep their social circle small – to family and a few friends – and it is hard to break in. If a Taurus is going out of their way to spend any time with you at all and is trying to invite you into that circle, then that is a sign that there's some interest.” [17]
    • If a Taurus man wants to bring you around to meet his friends , it means he wants you to connect with the people that are important to him – and that you’re becoming important to him, too. [18]
    • While “meeting the family” usually happens once you’re dating someone, any guy telling his family about you is another sign that he does indeed like you!
    • Don’t forget, an interested Taurus man shows his love by making your friends his friends, too.
  2. Advertisement
10

He gives you help when you need it.

PDF download Download Article
  1. As part of being such practical people, Taurus men like to take charge of situations. If you need help, either in the form of a physical chore or in the form of advice, a Taurus man who likes you will jump at the chance to offer assistance. [19] Ask for his advice and look for his reaction. Giving advice is so personal and requires a thought-out response. He’ll only want to do it with someone he really likes.
    • You could alternatively ask him for help with a work-related task or a DIY project. Taurus men are hardworking, so if he’s particularly eager to work on something with you, that’s a good sign.
    • Similarly, if he goes out of his way to help you out, consider it another signal that he really likes you. [20]
11

He gets you gifts or pays the check.

PDF download Download Article
  1. Taurus men are generous, and expensive gifts are a sign that he likes you and is trying to impress you with how much money he has, says Eyedealism. [21] He might get you little trinkets that made him think of you, make a point of paying for your coffee, or insist on taking you out for lunch. [22] And when you date a Taurus man , he’ll wine and dine you at the finest restaurants and always pick up the check.
    • He might also give you the gift of quality time. This goes back to the idea that he wants to spend all his time with you.
    • If he’s taking time away from friends and family and giving it to you, it’s an important signal he likes you.
    EXPERT TIP

    Angel Eyedealism

    Astrologer & Performance Artist
    Angel Eyedealism is an Astrologer and Performance Artist based in the Lower East Side of Manhattan. With nearly three decades of astrology experience, Angel specializes in relocation astrology and astrocartography. Eyedealism has been featured in numerous media outlets such as Vogue, Cosmopolitan, The Atlantic, The Washington Post, Refinery29, NBC, MTV, Showtime, and Bravo. Angel aims to help others through a straightforward, kind, and humorous astrological lens, utilizing her entertainment and singing skills for performance art astrology readings.
    Angel Eyedealism
    Astrologer & Performance Artist

    Venus rules Taurus, so these men are romantic and love luxury. The planet Venus rules love and money, so it makes sense. It also means they want you to know they spent money on you. You may get gifts that have impressive labels attached.

  2. Advertisement
12

He gets nervous around you.

PDF download Download Article
  1. Taurus men sometimes become awkward when they try to flirt. While some Taurus men may seem smooth, that’s not always the case – nor is awkwardness a bad sign. Taurus men typically take a long time to process their emotions, so opening up to people is tricky. [23]
    • If he sends mixed signals, fidgets, or quickly adjusts his appearance when you walk towards him, it may mean he likes you and feels self-conscious around you. [24]
    • Taurus men are more subdued and subtle at first and can even come off as shy.
    • If he’s afraid of rejection or new to flirting, those could also be the reason that he’s nervous. Stick around and look for other signals to confirm that he’s interested in you.
13

He shows his protective side around you.

PDF download Download Article
  1. Taurus men are natural protectors, and if he likes you, he’ll want you to know he’s going to keep you safe, sound, and comfortable. [25] Expect to see his protective instincts on full display if he has feelings for you. He’ll walk you to the door after you hang out, stick close when meeting new people, or defend your point of view in a group discussion.
    • He may make larger gestures to show you he’s ready to protect you, like going out of his way to come to your aid when you need a hero.
    • While protective instincts are great, Taurus men are also prone to jealousy if they feel the need to protect what is theirs.
    • Jealousy is a normal thing for people to feel, but make sure he’s not taking it to the point of being overbearing.
    • Eyedealism says that Taurean men have a hard time trusting people and they want to know you’re loyal. [26]
    • Take the time to show him you’re just as loyal as he is, and the jealousy should fade.
  2. Advertisement
14

He’s not interested in anyone else.

PDF download Download Article
  1. Loyalty is key for a Taurus man, so if he’s looking at you, he’s looking at only you. [27] Study his reactions in group situations and see how much attention he’s giving you versus the rest of the group. If he hints that he’s single in conversation, he’s probably trying to figure out if you like him back.
    • You might also notice him staring at you when he thinks you aren’t looking.
    • Taurus men don’t like to play games or casually see a few people at one time.
    • Once a Taurus decides they like someone, that’s where they focus all of their energy.
15

He makes future plans involving you.

PDF download Download Article
  1. Taureans take a long time to make up their minds, and as a fixed Earth sign, they don’t like change. If he makes you a part of his future places, it’s a huge indication that he has finally decided he likes you. [28] When he mentions things he’d like to do with you or plans an outing that won’t happen for a few months, it shows he wants to keep you in his life long-term.
    • Future plans include buying tickets to see his favorite bands months in advance or mentioning that he’d like you to come to a family get-together next summer.
    • Even off-handed comments, like mentioning where he thinks you’ll both be in a couple of years, heavily imply that he doesn’t want you going anywhere!
  2. Advertisement


Taurus Compatibility Chart

Learn How to Date a Taurus Man with this Expert Series

Taurus men are dependable, practical, and occasionally stubborn. Dating a Taurus man requires a patient, straightforward approach, and this expert series has everything you need to know.

Expert Q&A

Search
Add New Question
  • Question
    Are Taurus hard to date?
    Angel Eyedealism
    Astrologer & Performance Artist
    Angel Eyedealism is an Astrologer and Performance Artist based in the Lower East Side of Manhattan. With nearly three decades of astrology experience, Angel specializes in relocation astrology and astrocartography. Eyedealism has been featured in numerous media outlets such as Vogue, Cosmopolitan, The Atlantic, The Washington Post, Refinery29, NBC, MTV, Showtime, and Bravo. Angel aims to help others through a straightforward, kind, and humorous astrological lens, utilizing her entertainment and singing skills for performance art astrology readings.
    Astrologer & Performance Artist
    Expert Answer
    Well, a little bit. It's a known fact that Taurus men are stubborn. They aren't very trusting and are looking for a more down to earth and traditional partner. Be aware of that!
  • Question
    How do you know if a Taurus man is interested?
    Angel Eyedealism
    Astrologer & Performance Artist
    Angel Eyedealism is an Astrologer and Performance Artist based in the Lower East Side of Manhattan. With nearly three decades of astrology experience, Angel specializes in relocation astrology and astrocartography. Eyedealism has been featured in numerous media outlets such as Vogue, Cosmopolitan, The Atlantic, The Washington Post, Refinery29, NBC, MTV, Showtime, and Bravo. Angel aims to help others through a straightforward, kind, and humorous astrological lens, utilizing her entertainment and singing skills for performance art astrology readings.
    Astrologer & Performance Artist
    Expert Answer
    They want to know that you're loyal, as this sign isn't known for being trustful. If the guy likes you, he'll do what's possible to know you better and see if you both share values. Also, he'll try to shower you with gifts!
Ask a Question
      Advertisement

      Video

      Tips

      Submit a Tip
      All tip submissions are carefully reviewed before being published
      Name
      Please provide your name and last initial
      Thanks for submitting a tip for review!

      About This Article

      Thanks to all authors for creating a page that has been read 236,208 times.

      Reader Success Stories

      • Anonymous

        Jun 7, 2023

        "Its tricky to understand a Taurus guy as I've recently started dating one. Its true, they're not very ..." more
      Share your story

      Did this article help you?

      Advertisement