11 Ways to Turn on a Scorpio Man through Text

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If you're in a relationship with a smoldering Scorpio man, you probably already know that sex is never far from his mind—but you'd like to get it front and center. All it takes is a simple text message to get your Scorpio guy all hot and bothered. Read on to learn all the best tricks to get his motor running.

This article is based on an interview with our astrologer and performance artist, Angel Eyedealism. Check out the full interview here.

How to Talk Dirty to a Scorpio Man Over Text

  1. Open with something lighthearted like "Hey, sexy... đŸ˜‰ How's your day going?"
  2. Confess your devotion with something like “Everyone pales in comparison to you.”
  3. Give him a sexy guessing game, e.g., "Guess what I'm wearing tonight..."
  4. Rile him up with a teasing comment like "I'm so distracted and it's your fault!"
  5. Tell him about a hot dream you have or confess a sexy secret.
  6. Send him sexy pictures of you or share your wildest fantasies with him.
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Start out with something light and teasing.

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    If you try to turn him on while he's at work or busy, he might just get annoyed. Let him know where your head is at, but give him the chance to reciprocate in a similar fashion before you run with it. A light, teasing text helps you find out when he might be open to something a little hotter.
    • "Hey, sexy... đŸ˜‰ How's your day going?"
    • "If you think that was hot, just wait until later."
    • "I'm trying to be good, I wouldn't want to distract you at work... or would I? đŸ˜ˆ "
    • "Let me know when you want your surprise..."
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Tell him he's the only man for you.

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    He needs to capture your heart and mind as well as your body. Texting him about how completely he's taken over your every thought will give him tingles. [1]
    • "I can't imagine spending time with anyone but you."
    • "I can tell you thing I've never told another soul."
    • "Anyone else pales in comparison to you."
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Make him guess something sexy.

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    If you have something sexy to tell him, don't just say it directly—make him guess it! Scorpio guys love a little mystery so it'll make the ultimate reveal even hotter and really turn him on.
    • "Guess what I'm wearing for our date tonight..."
    • "Every time I think of you, one word pops into my mind. Guess what it is đŸ˜‰ "
    • "I'll give you 3 guesses what I want to do tonight... and the first 2 don't count đŸ˜˜ "
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Tease him in a playful way.

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    Scorpio is co-ruled by Mars, an aggressive and dominant planet, which means this guy's all about the conquest. He'll get really hot under the collar if you rile him up with a little sexy teasing. [2]
    • "What?! I would never... I'm completely innocent! đŸ˜‡ "
    • "I'm so distracted today and it's all your fault!"
    • "You're a bad influence, mister! I've always been such a good girl!"
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Confess a hot secret to him.

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    Power is a big turn-on for him. Besides, he's super secretive himself, so if you're telling him something no one else knows, he'll feel a deep, intimate bond with you. Telling a secret also makes you vulnerable, which is an even bigger turn-on for a Scorpion. [3]
    • "Ok, I'll tell you the story... but you have to promise not to repeat it. I've never told anyone about this before."
    • "Can I tell you something I've never told anyone else before?"
    • "OMG, I can't believe I told you that. No one knows I did that but you!"
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Respond to an ordinary text with innuendo.

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    A playful sexy comment from out of nowhere will really take him off guard—in a good way. If you take a mundane situation and flip it on its head, your Scorpion's imagination will take off.
    • He says, "Hey, can I ask you a favor?" You reply, "I'll do whatever you want đŸ˜‰ "
    • He says, "I'm free this afternoon. Wanna meet up?" You reply, "I'm all yours đŸ˜ˆ "
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Make a sexy bet with him.

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    He can be super competitive (thank his co-ruling planet Mars for that) and he likes to come out on top—a sexy bet really pushes all the right buttons. He'll take your bet and might even up the ante, so make sure you're ready to deliver whatever you offer.
    • "If the Braves win, I'll watch the next game with you wearing your jersey... and nothing else."
    • "I bet a hot oil massage you can't get a reservation at that restaurant tonight."
    • "I bet a striptease you won't score a goal in this game."
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Tell him about the hot dream you had.

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    The influence of Pluto, co-ruler of his sign, gives a Scorpio guy an intense interest in the human subconscious. Don't worry about your dream being too wild—nothing's too wild for a Scorpio guy. In fact, the wilder it is, the more turned on he'll likely be.
    • "So you were in my dream last night... wanna hear about it?"
    • "You were in my dream last night. Let's just say I woke up very satisfied đŸ˜ˆ "
    • "Last night I dreamed you tied me up."
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Ask him for permission to do something.

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    Make it something silly and fun so he understands the game. He'll get turned on by the thought that you're doing something only because he allowed you to (even if you were already planning on doing it). [4] You can always soften the language a bit if you're not comfortable explicitly asking for his permission.
    • "Can I have a glass of wine with dinner tonight?"
    • "May I ask you a question?"
    • "May I cook you dinner tonight?"
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Send him sexy pics of you.

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    If you really want to turn him on, this is the way to go. Don't think you have to send him full nudes, though. Your sizzling Scorpio loves a little mystery, so it's totally okay if you don't feel comfortable baring it all. Try some of these tantalizing teases:
    • If you're wearing provocative underwear, take a pic revealing just the waistband against your skin.
    • Pose nude, but in a position where nothing NSFW is revealed.
    • Dangle a pair of sexy underwear from one finger and take a picture of your hand.
    • Take an extreme closeup of a random bare part of your body (such as your inner elbow or your calf) and ask him to guess what it is.
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    Scorpio is the sexiest, most passionate sign in the zodiac. He loves fantasies—the kinkier, the better. Chances are, he's already done it (or at least thought about it) and he'll get excited just thinking about how to fulfill you in new ways.
    • "My biggest fantasy is having sex in a public place."
    • "I've always fantasized about being tied up."
    • "I've never told anyone this, but I've always fantasized about having a threesome."
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    Angel Eyedealism is an Astrologer and Performance Artist based in the Lower East Side of Manhattan. With nearly three decades of astrology experience, Angel specializes in relocation astrology and astrocartography. Eyedealism has been featured in numerous media outlets such as Vogue, Cosmopolitan, The Atlantic, The Washington Post, Refinery29, NBC, MTV, Showtime, and Bravo. Angel aims to help others through a straightforward, kind, and humorous astrological lens, utilizing her entertainment and singing skills for performance art astrology readings.
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    Scorpios need to know you're sexually interested in them. They want passion and heat, so show him you're into him. At the same time, Scorpios crave mystery and will want to unravel your secrets, so don't give everything away.
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