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Why are you dreaming about your own wedding? Or someone else's? The answer may surprise you
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Wedding bells, church pews, flower arrangements, and…naked guests? A total stranger putting a ring on your finger? Your best friend marrying your partner? Wedding dreams can be super weird and confusing, and it turns out they might actually be a sign that something deeper is going on in your psyche. Dreaming is our brain’s way of working through emotions we don’t always notice when we’re awake. So that dream you had about walking down the aisle with an octopus? You might want to think on that. To help you get to the bottom of things, we’ve compiled a list of the 14 most common wedding dream scenarios and what they actually mean.

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If you had a dream about getting married when you’re single IRL…

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  1. Whether you dreamt of having a traditional religious wedding (Christian, Catholic, Jewish, Hindu, etc.), a non-denominational wedding, or anything in between, a dream of marriage could suggest that you’re awaiting the start of something positive. As a symbol, marriage typically represents the union of two things. Whether it’s a new relationship, job, or exciting opportunity, a happy life change may be on its way! [1]
    • If you were unhappy to be married in the dream, you might not be ready to rush into a new relationship. Don’t forget being single is a great opportunity to get to know yourself better.
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If you dreamt you married your IRL partner…

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  1. Marrying your partner in a dream can be an indication of wish fulfillment. If you and your partner have a healthy, fulfilling relationship, dreaming of your union might signify that you’re prepared for and want to commit to them.
    • If dreaming of marrying your partner leaves you feeling scared and anxious rather than happy, you may be doubting your relationship’s strength.
    • If an element of your partnership has been bothering you, don’t be afraid to let your partner know. Communication is key to a healthy relationship. [2]
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If you had a dream you dropped everything and eloped…

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  1. An elopement typically represents the decision to drop the drama and focus on doing what’s most important in a scaled-back way. [3] If you’ve recently dreamt you eloped, you might be feeling stressed out about your home or work life and want to escape.
    • Allow yourself some time to relax. If you’ve dreamt of an elopement, you might need to take a step back from the things in your life that are overwhelming you and reset.
    • Ask yourself how you could simplify your life to lighten your load.
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If you dreamt you married a total stranger or acquaintance…

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  1. If dreaming of marrying a total stranger or an acquaintance gave you a sense of comfort, you might be looking to start a new romantic relationship or platonic friendship. Make efforts to put yourself out there more by going to coffee shops or pursuing your interests in a group setting, like taking a pottery class. You might just meet someone new!
    • If dreaming that you married someone you haven’t seen or spoken to in a long time made you want to reach out, consider acting on it. It’s never too late to reconnect with an old friend. [4]
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If you had a dream your IRL partner married someone else…

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  1. Watching your partner marry someone else in a dream might mean you’re feeling anxious or unsure about something going on between the two of you. If you suspect cheating or your partner has been more distant than usual, your brain is probably manifesting these fears in the form of a dream.
    • There’s a reason why people say, “It was only a dream!” Dreams are often rooted far from reality, don’t make sense, and don’t indicate whether something will happen in real life, so try not to worry too much.
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If you dreamt someone else got married…

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If you dreamt of your own IRL wedding…

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  1. Whether you had a positive or negative wedding experience, your wedding dream might be your subconscious mind’s attempt at working through your current love or a love that has ended. [7] If you had a happy dream, consider it a warm reminder of good times, but if dreaming of your wedding disturbs you, be kind to yourself and try to replace negative experiences with new positive ones.
    • Strategies to leave the past behind include making the conscious decision to accept it as-is and planning for the future.
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If you had a dream you were alone at the alter…

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  1. If you dreamt you were left standing at the altar, it might be a sign that you’re feeling regretful and need emotional support. [8] Look inwards by asking yourself if there’s anything you feel you need advice on or take steps to spend time with loved ones if you’ve been feeling isolated.
    • Dreams are often manifestations of our fears. If you’re worried about being alone, you’re likely just trying to work through these emotions in the form of a nightmare. [9]
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If you dreamt about getting ready for a wedding…

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If you had a dream you were late for a wedding…

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  1. Dreaming of being late signals a fear of running out of time. [13] Common interpretations of being late in a dream imply you may be worried you’re losing time with someone you’re close to or running out of time to settle down with someone you love.
    • If you’re feeling anxious about not spending enough time with friends and family or are dealing with other life-related stressors like work deadlines, etc., consider reaching out to your loved ones and take active steps to calm yourself through methods like meditation. [14]
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    How can I get better at analyzing my dreams?
    Jennifer McVey, Cht
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    Jennifer McVey is a Spiritualist, Seer, and the Spiritual Director of Spiritual Answers and Solutions. With more than 22 years of experience, she specializes in manifesting, ghosts and spirit attachments, hypnotherapy, channeling, and spiritually based life coaching. Jennifer has also published 13 Affirmation Image and six Word Search Puzzle books in spirituality and self-help and has produced over 600 audio sessions.
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    Keep your own dream journal! Use it keep track of your dreams and write down all the different things that they actually mean (or what comes to pass soon after). Ultimately, your subconscious mind speaks in symbols; the better you are at knowing what your mind thinks those symbols are, the better you'll be able to interpret your dreams.
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