What Are Some Activities to Build Confidence in Teenagers?

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For teens, self-esteem and self-confidence can be really hard to come by. As a parent, teacher, or community leader, it can be challenging to bridge this gap and make a meaningful connection—but it’s definitely possible! We’ve put together some ideas and activities that can help teach teens confidence-building strategies. Scroll through this list and see if any of these options appeal to you.


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Invite the teen to sketch a self-portrait.

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    Ask the teen to write “I am” above their picture, along with positive words that their friends and loved ones would use to describe them. Discuss these words and traits with the teen, so they can start to view themselves in a positive light.
    • Provide lots of art supplies for them to use so the teen can really unleash their creativity.
    • This activity might appeal more to younger teens.
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Encourage the teen to design a shoebox that mirrors their self-image.

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    Provide an empty shoe box, along with lots of magazines, tape, markers, and other art supplies. Invite the teen to tape pictures, words, magazine clippings, and trinkets that represent how other people see them on the outside of the box. Then, ask them to add clippings, pictures, and words that represent their own self-image on the inside. Once the shoebox is done, discuss what they really like about themselves, as well as how they’d like to improve in the future.
    • This is an especially great activity for older teens.
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Ask the teen to create a positive thinking journal.

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    Invite them to list positive traits about themselves, as well as specific instances that really demonstrate that nice quality. During the week, have them log some activities they did during the day, along with positive qualities they displayed during each activity. [1]
    • For example, if a teen did their homework, they might write that they were “responsible” or “hard-working.”
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Advise the teen to make a gratitude journal.

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    [2] Invite the teen to jot down gratitude rituals they do already, like saying thanks before dinner. Then, ask them to write down things they’re thankful for, like electricity and food to eat, as well as people they’re thankful for, like friends and loved ones. Encourage them to write about past events that they now feel thankful for, along with specific moments when they feel grateful. [3]
    • The teen could also write about ways they’ve thanked people in their life, or ways to plan on thanking people in the future.
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Encourage the teen to reflect on self-esteem throughout the week.

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    At the beginning of the week, ask them to list some benefits of having high self-esteem. During the week, encourage them to think positive, encouraging thoughts. Invite them to write these thoughts on sticky notes and place them around their home. At the end of the week, ask the teen to reflect on their self-esteem, and how they feel after the week-long activity. [4]
    • As an extra activity, you could ask them to write an essay about their experience, or to create a collage that represents high self-esteem.
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Have the teen advise someone who’s struggling with their self-esteem.

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    Ask the teen to write responses to these fake callers, where they offer their own advice on how to boost self-esteem. This is a great way to give them some perspective, and help them build their confidence and self-esteem. [5]
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Invite the teen to boost a fictional character’s self-esteem.

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    Discuss why this character has low self-esteem, and ask the teen to brainstorm a couple ways the character could boost their self-esteem. Then, talk about how the character’s life will be after they’ve improved their self-esteem. [6]
    • For instance, a shy character from a school-themed TV show might boost their self-confidence by joining clubs and making new friends.
    • A wizard character from a fantasy movie might boost their self-esteem by practicing their magic spells more often.
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Help the teen focus on positive areas for change.

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    They might reflect on how they look physically, their personal body image, and how they use social media. For each individual aspect, ask them to write down 2 positive changes they can make for themselves. This is a great way to encourage positive thinking and build a healthy perspective.
    • For instance, a teen might write that they need to spend less time on Twitter, or that they should spend less time comparing themselves to other people on Instagram.
    • Getting to really know yourself and understanding what you need to work on will help build confidence.
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Ask the teen to write down their positive traits and qualities.

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    These prompts could be things like “I am unique because...” “I am proud of myself for...” “I feel good when I...” and “I have a natural talent for…” Ask them to fill in each prompt with lots of positive words and traits, so they can feel really good about themselves.
    • “Goals for my future are…” “People say I am a good…” and “The traits I admire myself for are…” are other excellent prompts.
    • Positive affirmations like "I'm smart" or "I'm capable" are a great way to build self-esteem.
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Promote exercise and physical activity.

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    Research shows that teens feel better about themselves when they exercise, especially if they’re participating in a school activity or at a gymnasium. Invite the teen to sign up for a fun exercise program, like soccer, field hockey, dance, swimming, or strength training. [7]
    • Any kind of exercise will do, whether it’s yoga, running, a team sport, or something else entirely.
    • Self-love includes taking care of your body as well as your mind, heart, and soul.
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Invite the teen to do some community service.

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    Look for community service opportunities in your area, like helping at a food pantry or coaching a sports team for little kids. Community involvement may help boost the teen’s self esteem, and teach them valuable lessons along the way. [8]
    • They could help with a local clean-up, or join a youth radio station.
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      1. ↑ https://www.cci.health.wa.gov.au/~/media/CCI/Consumer%20Modules/Improving%20Self-Esteem/Improving%20Self-Esteem%20-%2006%20-%20Accepting%20Yourself.pdf
      2. ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/what-mentally-strong-people-dont-do/201504/7-scientifically-proven-benefits-gratitude
      3. ↑ https://kidshealth.org/en/teens/gratitude-worksheet.html
      4. ↑ https://classroom.kidshealth.org/classroom/9to12/personal/growing/self_esteem.pdf
      5. ↑ https://classroom.kidshealth.org/classroom/9to12/personal/growing/self_esteem.pdf
      6. ↑ https://classroom.kidshealth.org/classroom/6to8/personal/growing/selfesteem.pdf
      7. ↑ https://www.mindful.org/five-ways-to-help-teens-build-a-sense-of-self-worth/
      8. ↑ https://raisingchildren.net.au/pre-teens/entertainment-technology/free-time-activities/community-activity

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