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In this day and age, many people have experienced a texting-only relationship. If you're in a texting-only relationship right now, you may have a lot of questions. Luckily, this article has got you covered! Read on to learn more about what this type of relationship means for you and your dating life.
What do you call a texting relationship?
A relationship that only involves texting without significant in-person interaction is typically called a textationship . Textationships can be useful if you’re in a long distance relationship, but you may want to discuss your relationship’s future if you want something more serious or physically intimate.
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Question 2 of 8:
Is a texting-only relationship healthy?
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1A texting-only relationship is healthy if you’re just looking for a casual connection. Engage in a texting-only relationship for lighthearted conversation and entertainment. If you're not looking for a full-fledged relationship, a texting-only relationship can be a good middle ground.
- Make sure the two of you are on the same page, though. It won't be a healthy or satisfying relationship if one of you wants to date face-to-face and the other doesn't.
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2A texting relationship is healthy if you're in a long-distance relationship . Sometimes, you can't meet up in person even if you want to. If you're separated by distance, text your partner frequently to keep up to date with each other's lives and let them know that they're on your mind.
- To make your relationship even stronger, consider adding phone calls and video chats, too. You'll feel closer if you can see their face and hear their voice.
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3A texting relationship might not be healthy if you’re looking for a more serious connection. Texting-only relationships don't give you a chance to see if you and the other person have in-person chemistry. You also miss out on things like tone of voice, facial expressions, and the chance to read a person's body language. If you find yourself falling for someone you've been texting a lot, ask if they want to meet. That way you can determine if you're a good match in person. [2] X Research source
- If the person doesn't want to meet up or keeps canceling on you, that's a sign that they don't want to move the relationship past texting.
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Is sexting a red flag in a texting relationship?
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1Sexting in a texting relationship might mean that the person is looking for a casual connection. A study conducted by the University of Alberta found that those who frequently sext in a relationship may be less committed to the relationship. If this person only wants to sext when you text each other, that may mean they're interested in a more casual arrangement. [6] X Research source
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2Compulsive sexting or receiving unwanted sexts is a red flag. If someone is always sending you explicit pictures or text messages without your permission, that's not okay. Just like any other type of sex, both people have to consent for things to feel safe and comfortable. Feel no pressure to continue texting this person. If they continue to sext without your consent, consider blocking their number and social media accounts. [7] X Research source
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QuestionWhat can I text to my ex to reconnect?Suzanna Mathews is a Dating and Relationship Coach and the Founder of The Date Maven. With over a decade of experience, she specializes in creating mindset tools, social strategies, and digital strategies that help her clients elevate dating and deepen connections. Suzanna holds a BA in Communications from Bethel College, North Newton, and an MA in Theater and Dramatic Arts from Wichita State University.Say something like, "Hey! Just saw that popsicle stand we walked by last summer and thought of you. Hope you're doing well!" If they respond, take the opportunity and see if they want to meet and catch up.
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References
- ↑ https://www.marriage.com/advice/communication/understanding-the-dynamics-of-texting-in-a-relationships/
- ↑ https://www.insider.com/texting-trap-when-dating-relationship-guru-coach-sami-wunder-2019-9
- ↑ https://www.insider.com/texting-trap-when-dating-relationship-guru-coach-sami-wunder-2019-9
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-art-closeness/201602/can-you-fall-someone-over-their-texts
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/meet-catch-and-keep/201403/is-constant-texting-good-or-bad-your-relationship
- ↑ https://phys.org/news/2018-01-lots-sexting-romance.html
- ↑ https://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/psychpedia/sexting
- ↑ https://goaskalice.columbia.edu/answered-questions/sexting-cheating
- ↑ https://www.helpguide.org/articles/relationships-communication/relationship-help.htm
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