Ready for a vibe check? Your vibe can say a lot about your personality and how you react to the world around you. Maybe you’re super chill, a bit chaotic, or a little mysterious.
So, what is your vibe and what does it say about you? Take our quiz and answer a few questions about your social life and self-image to find out!
Questions Overview
- Relaxed. I’m typically the easy-going one.
- Loud. I love being the life of the party!
- Flirtatious. I can’t go a day without winking at someone.
- Indifferent. I generally don’t care what’s going on.
- By fist bumping them. Sounds pretty cool, if you ask me.
- By jumping up and down. This is going to be epic!
- With a giggle. I’m already planning the best, eye-catching outfit.
- With a shrug. I’m only going if my friends drag me along.
- Draped over the couch with my arms casually behind my head.
- Balancing on the arm of the couch. I like the challenge.
- Sitting upright with my legs crossed and back straight. I have to look my best.
- Whatever feels comfortable for me in the moment.
- Who knows, man? I’ll flow with whatever comes my way.
- Call all my friends to have the most epic party ever!
- Text my crush to see if he wants to come over and hang out.
- Silence my phone, close the blinds, and settle in for a movie marathon.
- Nothing. I’ll just talk to them and see what happens.
- Ask a million questions, and bite my tongue long enough for them to answer.
- Scooch my chair closer and flirt. They’ll be asking me out by the end of the day.
- Try to avoid eye contact. If they look into my eyes, I’m a goner.
- Give them the menu and ask them to surprise me.
- Ask what they’d recommend and start a conversation.
- Bat my eyelashes and ask for a few more minutes.
- Avoid their eyes and quietly ask for more time.
- Cozy, bright, and lived-in.
- Vibrant, messy, and mismatched.
- Romantic, comfortable, and tidy.
- Dark, safe, and quiet.
- Get up and smile like nothing happened. People fall all the time, after all.
- Jump up and laugh along with them. Maybe I’ll even take a bow!
- Try to keep my face from turning red. Please tell me my crush didn’t see…
- Crawl away absolutely mortified. School’s the worst.
- That I was always a good friend.
- My wild stories! I want my adventures and antics to be the talk of every party.
- Anything, as long as it doesn’t involve my exes.
- I don’t think they’ll remember me. If they do, I hope it’s for my deep thoughts.
- Anything’s cool with me! But I’ll always advocate for ones with talking dogs.
- Something action-packed or that will make you wet your pants with fear!
- They better want to see the rom-com. It has something for everyone.
- I’d rather go by myself or watch at home so I don’t have to argue.
- Jennifer Lawrence. She’s so down-to-earth.
- Lindsay Lohan. She knows how to party.
- Chris Evans. He knows he’s hot and isn’t afraid to show it.
- Robert Pattison. Mysterious and equally fine.
- “Don’t take things too seriously.”
- “Life is nothing without a little chaos to make it interesting.”
- “Spread love everywhere you go.”
- “Quiet people have the loudest minds.”
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Understanding Your Vibes
You’ve probably seen “good vibes only” captioned along with a ✌️ on social media, or heard a friend say, “I’ve caught a vibe!” or “Not the vibe, bro.” To unpack these phrases, we first need to define “vibes.”
Vibes refer to the spiritual vibrations or frequencies of the world. These frequencies are generated by energy. In other words, vibes are the energetic mood of something or someone. Think of it like a radio connection. With each turn of the knob, you tune into a different station—vibes work the same way! Everything and everyone has energy, and some believe these energies can be good or bad. You can tune into different energies by focusing on positive or negative emotions.
Now that you know what a vibe is, let’s take a closer look at some common phrases:
“Good vibes only!” When someone says “good vibes,” they’re talking about positive energy or happy emotions. [1] X Research source People generally use the phrase “good vibes only” to disclose that they only welcome positive thoughts and/or feelings into their space. This phrase may seem innocent but can turn negative in certain contexts. Some people believe that “good vibes only” is a form of toxic positivity because it isn’t realistic to only have happy emotions. [2] X Research source
“Catch a vibe” If someone says they want to “catch a vibe” or has “caught a vibe,” it means they’re relating to someone on an emotional or spiritual level. Let’s return to our radio example. Say you have two radios on at the same time. At first, they’re on different channels and playing different stations. But the longer you change stations, the closer you get to playing the same station. “Catching a vibe” with someone works the same way! The longer you talk or chill with someone, the more likely your energies will sync up.
“Vibing” This term is often used interchangeably with “hanging out” or “chilling.” If someone’s “vibing” with someone else, they’re most likely spending time together, having a good time, and connecting on an emotional or spiritual level.
“Chill vibes” If someone has “chill vibes,” they’re super mellow. They’re most likely the laid-back one of the group and like to go with the flow. In other words, they’re as cool as a cucumber!
Want to learn more?
For more information about vibes and toxic positivity, check out these resources: