What Should You Do When Your Boyfriend Yells at You? Know What to Say and What to Do

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Getting into an occasional fight with your boyfriend is perfectly normal. If things get so heated that he yells at you, though, that's a little more serious. It's never okay for your boyfriend to yell or act aggressively toward you. If you're looking for guidance on what to do in this situation, we're here to help. We'll start with tips on how to de-escalate a heated situation before it gets out of hand. Then, we'll walk you through how to process what happened, talk to your boyfriend about it, and move forward.

This article is based on an interview with our relationship counselor, Jason Polk, LCSW, LAC, owner of Colorado Relationship Recovery. Check out the full interview here.

1

Stay calm and keep your face neutral.

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    [1] [2] It can be hard to control your emotions, especially when things get heated and your boyfriend yells at you. If you need to, mentally count to 10 before you respond to him. Try to stay composed and focus on de-escalating the situation. [3]
    • If your boyfriend is being aggressive or cursing at you, that is absolutely not okay. You don’t deserve that kind of treatment. Try to stay calm so you can diffuse the situation and get away from him as soon as possible. [4]
    • It might seem like smiling at him is a good idea, but if he's already angry and not thinking clearly, it may provoke him. People with anger issues may interpret a smile as mockery. It’s safer to keep your facial expression blank. [5]
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Take a step back away from him.

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    [6] Being up in each other’s faces during a fight is an extremely intense experience, especially if your boyfriend starts yelling at you. Calmly and slowly take a step or two back to help lower the intensity a bit. [7]
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Tell him to lower his voice.

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    It’s not always easy, but try to keep all emotion out of your voice when you say this to him. The calmer you are, the more chance you have of calming him down, too. [9] You might say something like:
    • "Jack, let's talk about this at a normal volume. We don't need to yell."
    • "Would you mind lowering your voice, Eric? I’m right here."
    • "I really want to solve this issue with you, but I can’t if you’re yelling at me."
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Leave the room so he can cool down.

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    [10] It's futile to let the conversation progress beyond this point. Instead, calmly tell your boyfriend you’re going for a walk and you’ll be back in 15-20 minutes to finish the discussion. [11] [12] You might say:
    • "Darren, I hate fighting with you. Let’s take a few minutes to calm down. I need to walk the dog anyway, so I’ll go take care of that now."
    • "John, I need to pick up my dry cleaning before the shop closes. I’ll be back in 15-20 minutes. Can we use that time to calm down and then circle back?"
    • If you feel scared or threatened, you don’t have to go back. It’s important to get yourself out of that situation as fast as possible.
    • Always set a specific time limit for timeout; that way, your boyfriend knows that you're coming back. [13]
5

Remind yourself that it’s not your fault.

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    [14] Being yelled at is upsetting; it's totally normal to feel hurt or shocked when it happens (especially if your boyfriend has never raised his voice at you before). [15] Once you’re alone and have some space to yourself, take a few deep breaths and try to relax. [16]
    • If you need to cry, let the tears out. It’s better to honor your emotions rather than try to repress them.
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Take a mental step back to assess the situation.

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    If your boyfriend has never yelled at you before, it’s worth giving him the benefit of the doubt; he may be dealing with stress, grief, or pressure that you don't know about. It’s not okay to take it out on you, but it's something you can talk through together. Here are a few other things to consider before speaking to your boyfriend again:
    • Is this the first time he’s yelled at you? What triggered the yelling? Is there an actual issue or did he fly off the handle for no reason? [17]
    • Did he call you names , make demeaning comments, or threaten you? That's verbal abuse ; you don’t deserve it and you don't have to put up with it. [18]
    • Did he try to blame his yelling on you? This is another common tactic abusers use to manipulate their partners. [19]
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Talk to someone about what happened.

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    When you have strong feelings for someone, it’s easy to overlook their flaws. If you aren't sure what to make of his outburst, or if you’re concerned that he has abusive tendencies, tell a trusted friend or family member what happened. Get an honest opinion from someone you trust. [20]
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Ask your boyfriend why he lost his temper.

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    It’s important that you get to the bottom of this issue so you can heal and move forward. [21] It helps to use “I” statements to explain how the yelling made you feel; “you” statements tend to come off as accusatory. [22] You might say something like:
    • "I felt shocked and confused when you raised your voice at me earlier. You’ve never done that before. Will you talk to me about what upset you so much?"
    • "I have a tough time thinking rationally when someone is yelling at me. Now that we’re both calm, please talk to me about why you’re so upset."
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Listen to his response objectively.

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    Try to put yourself in his shoes and see where he’s coming from. [23] If your boyfriend has never yelled at you before, he may be feeling insecure, overwhelmed, or afraid for some reason. [24] That's worth exploring with him. If he got angry and yelled at you because he wanted control over something and he didn’t get what he wanted, that’s not acceptable. [25] For example:
    • If your boyfriend got upset because you’ve been partying a lot during the week, he may be worried you’ve met someone else or scared that you'll get hurt. If you put yourself in his shoes, you can see where he's coming from.
    • If your boyfriend was upset because you spend more time with your friends than with him, he's trying to control you. When you put yourself in his shoes, his feelings don’t make much sense. [26]
    • If he won’t admit he yelled at you or says you're overreacting, that’s gaslighting —another form of abuse. You don’t deserve that and it's not okay. [27]
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Make it clear that yelling at you is unacceptable.

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    Setting this clear, specific boundary is important for the future. If you feel good about moving forward as a couple after you talk about what happened, that’s great! Just be sure to explain that he crossed a line when he yelled at you. You won’t tolerate being yelled at again, so he needs to respect that boundary from now on. [28]
    • Be clear and specific; if you’re vague when you set a boundary, he may not understand what’s at stake. [29]
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Break up with him if the behavior continues.

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    If he has an abusive streak, it's best to get out now. This doesn’t mean your boyfriend is a bad person. He was likely abused himself and probably needs some therapy to work through that. You can’t help him work through it or change him on your own, though. Breakups are tough, but if he can't control his temper, it’s the right thing to do for both of you (even if it hurts). [30]
    • If you’re committed to staying together, consider seeing a couples counselor so you can work through this issue together in a safe space. [31]
    Lundy Bancroft, Bestselling Domestic Abuse Expert

    A relationship with chronic yelling or verbal abuse is damaging, period. Over time, name-calling, putdowns, and unreasonable demands erode your self-esteem and capacity to make decisions. Threats and angry outbursts train you to placate and fear your partner. You walk on eggshells, careful in your words and actions so as not to anger him.

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    Create a plan with him ahead of time for when tensions get high. Say something like "If you yell at me, I'm going to go to a different room so we can both calm down. Then, we'll come back later and talk."
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    Absolutely! Leaving the area might not feel comfortable or good in the moment, but it's definitely better than continuing and possibly escalating the argument to a toxic level.
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    That depends. Be careful at first and don't pick things up where you left off and don't resume whatever triggered the fight. See if you can keep things more surface level in the beginning!
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