How to Win Your Crush (Girls)

How do you get your crush to like you back? Just thinking about talking to them might make your heart pound and give you butterflies, but getting your crush to fall for you can actually be really fun and exciting. Read on for some advice on winning that special person's heart and getting your crush to fall for you.

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Spend time around your crush.

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    Sit next to them in class or ask them how their day’s going when you run into each other. If you two end up at the same party or standing around in the same group, try to move closer to them or start up a conversation. As time goes on, you’ll discover more things about them, and they’ll get to see how amazing you are. [1]
    • Try to talk about something you both have in common like an upcoming event or a school project. You could say something like, “Hey, I’m stuck on that history project. Have you figured out how to do the last part?”
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Show genuine interest in what they like.

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    People like talking about their interests, so texting or talking about what your crush likes will help you find things you have in common. [2] If you’re not sure what they’re into, check out their social media profile, or ask mutual friends. It’s even better if you can talk about a hobby, subject, or piece of pop culture that you both enjoy! [3]
    • Ask them to show you their favorite sport.
    • Exchange Spotify or Apple Music playlists and check out their favorite bands.
    • Watch a few episodes of their favorite show or stream their favorite movie.
    • Reader Poll: We asked 1239 wikiHow readers who've talked to their gym crush, and 54% of them agreed that the best way to break the ice is by making small talk about their workout routine. [Take Poll] This is a great example of how to ask your crush about their interests!
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    If you’re an amazing singer, show off your skills at a karaoke night. If you’re an incredible swimmer, post a few photos from your latest swim meet on social media. Nothing’s more attractive than seeing a person totally in their element. [4]
    • If you’re texting, try bringing up a fun fact about your favorite subject or sharing a trailer to a movie you love.
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Give them a compliment so they feel special.

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    Drop a comment on their latest social media post, or bring up something you like about them IRL. [5] For a more direct approach, you can reply to one of their stories with a compliment or slide into their DMs. Here are a few examples for inspiration:
    • Let them know you think they’re cute. Try something like, “Your smile is 😍.”
    • Tease them a bit with something like, “It’s a good thing you’re cute, because you’re obviously not great at tennis.” The key here is to only bring up things they actually are amazing at.
    • Tell them you like one of your personality traits. Send them a text like, “Ok, it’s taken me a lot of time to admit this, but I think you might actually be funnier than me.”
    • Bring up one of their accomplishments. You could say something like, “I saw you play the other night ⚽⚡🥅. Can I get your autograph before you go pro? 😂”
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Listen to them without distractions.

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    Put away your phone if you’re talking IRL, and try to engage with what they’re saying. [6] Good listening can help you impress your crush, too! Try to remember small details they’ve mentioned like their favorite snack. Bonus points if you surprise them by bringing that snack the next time you meet up.
    • Let them know you’re listening by reacting with phrases like, “Woah, then what happened?” or “Wait, tell me more about that.”
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Make eye contact and smile.

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    Try catching your crush’s eye and smiling. Then, look away to be a little flirty. If they smile a lot around you, that’s a good sign they like you back. [7]
    • A shy crush might intentionally avoid eye contact with you, so don’t be discouraged if they seem to not want to look right at you.
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Flirt by casually touching them.

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    Give them a hug, or lightly touch their arm when they say something funny. If you have to walk past them, try putting your hand on their shoulder as you say “excuse me.” If you’re walking side-by-side, casually let your hand brush theirs. [8]
    • If you’re not sure whether or not they’re comfortable with you touching them, just ask. For instance, you could say, "Can I give you a hug?"
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Use inside jokes to flirt over DM or text.

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    Call your crush by their silly nickname or mention a funny situation you both experienced. If you’re texting, you can use the classic line “Remember the time when…” as a way to jump into a hilarious story. [9] If you don’t have any inside jokes yet, you can try calling them a cute new nickname as long as it’s respectful.
    • “Hey, remember that time when we taught my dog how to howl? I think that was a mistake…”
    • “Remember when we made Mr. Carter laugh so hard he spit out his coffee? 🤣”
    • “Hi, Taylor Tot. What’s up?”
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Text them a funny photo, video, or GIF.

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    The next time you text your crush, try adding in a few hilarious photos or GIFs. Send a meme that matches their sense of humor. You could also send a cute vid and say, “This reminds me of you!” [10]
    • Send a cute selfie once in a while if you want to remind them that you’re a total catch.
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Send a good morning or goodnight text.

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    A good morning or goodnight text pretty clearly tells your crush you like them, because it means that they’re the first and last thing on your mind. Still, it’s not as direct as saying “I like you” so this is a low-stress move if you're feeling nervous. If your crush responds positively, you’ll know that they like you back! [11]
    • “Hey, good morning 😊”
    • “Wish I could stay up texting you but I’ve gotta go to bed. Goodnight!”
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    Sending your crush a song or personalized playlist is a super romantic way to win them over. It shows that you took the time to think about music they’d like, and it gives you two your own soundtrack. [12] If you know their music taste, throw in a couple of songs you know they already like plus a few songs they might not have heard.
    • You can also just send them a song and say, “Hey, this made me think of you :)”
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Hint that you like them if you're feeling shy.

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    Letting someone know you like them is actually proven to make them like you more! [13] You could tell their friends that you think that person is cute or just ramp up the compliments. If that seems like too much, ask your friend to talk to your crush and hint that you like them.
    • You can also try asking them to hang out in a group setting with a bunch of your other friends.
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Ask them out if you're feeling confident.

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    In fact, confidence is really attractive! You can be direct and tell them you like them, or you can get creative by giving them a cute note. If you’re feeling shy, you can ask them out via text, too. [14] You can ask if they want to watch a movie with you, go on a study date, or grab food together.
    • For a simple approach: Try saying, “Hey, I like you. Do you want to go out sometime?”
    • For a creative approach: Use a funny photo or pun. For instance, send a photo of grapes and text, “I think we’d be grape together. Wanna go out?”
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Be the best version of yourself.

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    [15] Be kind and generous to other people, and treat everyone with respect. [16] Above all, stay true to who you are, so your crush can fall for the real you. After all, you’re pretty incredible!
    • Take good care of your body. Eat a healthy diet, exercise, practice proper hygiene, and wear clean clothing that reflects your personal style.
    • Pursue hobbies and interests that matter to you. People find passion really attractive!

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    It's not necessarily super productive to think about it as a competition. You can't control the way other people feel. Just make sure you look good, be kind, and try to cultivate a meaningful relationship with them.
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    You could say something like, "I think I have a crush on you. No pressure, but I just wanted to let you know because I think you're really cool." If you're feeling shy about it, you could lead into it by texting him and saying, "I heard someone has a crush on you. Guess who?" and then see if he guesses right. If he doesn't guess you, tell him!
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    It's okay to like someone even if they don't act perfectly all the time. However, it's not okay if he makes you or other people feel uncomfortable with inappropriate behavior. In that case, tell an adult or a teacher. You can also tell him, "Hey, it's not nice when you do that. It makes me uncomfortable. Please stop."
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      2. ↑ Stefanie Safran. Dating Coach & Matchmaker. Expert Interview. 8 May 2020.
      3. ↑ https://www.npr.org/2021/07/11/1014019821/flirting-how-to-dating-romance-advice
      4. ↑ Imad Jbara. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 5 November 2019.
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      7. ↑ https://milnepublishing.geneseo.edu/interpersonalcommunication/chapter/5/
      8. ↑ https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0749597818310173
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      3. ↑ https://www.marriage.com/advice/relationship/flirt-with-girl-over-text/
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      If you’re a girl who’s eager to win over your crush, focus on getting to know them and being the best version of yourself. Take every opportunity to talk to your crush and ask them about the things they’re interested in, like TV shows, sports, and music. Besides talking about their interests, show up to some of their events to show you care. For example, if they play football, go to one of their home games and cheer them on! It’s also important to have your own passions, which make you an interesting and attractive person. You should also show your crush that you’re a nice person by being kind, checking how they’re doing regularly, and supporting them through emotional times. If they share secrets with you, make sure you keep them to yourself to build their trust. For more tips, including how to flirt with your crush, read on!

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