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Does a certain girl take your breath away? Is she the only thing you can think about? If you’re absolutely infatuated by her, we know how it feels—and we have your back. Don’t stress if you’re not sure how to impress her and stand out. With these helpful tips we’ve put together for you, you might just win her heart!
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QuestionWhat if it a 12 year oldThis answer was written by one of our trained team of researchers who validated it for accuracy and comprehensiveness.wikiHow Staff EditorStaff AnswerYou can follow these same steps for someone who's 12, as long as you're about the same age!
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Questionhow to come out to your parents?This answer was written by one of our trained team of researchers who validated it for accuracy and comprehensiveness.wikiHow Staff EditorStaff AnswerFirst, take some time to decide whether or not that's something you feel safe doing. It can also help to find someone supportive, like a friend or a school counselor, and talk to them.
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QuestionHow will I talk to her,I mean I girl that I just meet....??This answer was written by one of our trained team of researchers who validated it for accuracy and comprehensiveness.wikiHow Staff EditorStaff AnswerTry asking her questions about the things she likes, and try to figure out what you have in common!
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- Before you make any moves, it’s best to make sure she’s not dating anyone.Thanks
- Figure out what she likes, because each girl is unique! Pay attention to any comments she makes about her personality, like if she says “I don't like girls who flirt a lot" or "I hate when people do that!"Thanks
- Respect her boundaries at all times. If she seems hesitant about something, it’s better to take a step back and ask her how she feels instead of assuming she’s okay with it. Pay attention to both her physical body language and other signs; if you notice that she’s not eager or excited about something, this could be a chance for you to switch things up and figure out what she would like more.Thanks
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- When asking for a girl's number, steal a few casual glances first to gauge interest, then approach directly saying "Hey, could I get your number to call you later?" If she declines, ask to meet up instead. Rebound if your first attempt falls through!
- If a girl asks who you like, try this phone trick: "Turn off your phone and stare at the black screen until you figure it out." The suspense hints that it's her without the pressure of a direct confession.
- Before formally asking out a girl, learn her zodiac sign and use astrological compability knowledge to boost your chances. Understanding her character can help you appeal to her unique personality.
- Keep romantic intentions private in the early stages. Spreading rumors or frequently swapping partners leads to a bad reputation that can undermine your current effort at winning someone's heart.
- Thoughtful gestures like lending your jacket when she gets cold demonstrate chivalry and care. She'll be touched that you considered her comfort. But don't rush to intimacy before she's ready.
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