Tell them firmly that you don’t want to see them anymore. “This is over. It’s not good for me anymore. I’m leaving and I don’t want to see you again.” “I can’t be with you anymore. I’m breaking up with you and I want it to be for good. I don’t want to see you at all.” Stay strong even when they try to change your mind. “I’ve made my decision. There’s nothing you can say to convince me otherwise.” “Stop. I don’t want to do this anymore and that choice is final.” Delete them from your phone and on all social media. * Do this as soon as you break off contact with them. * Block them permanently on your phone and on social media so they can’t message you. * Leave your phone at home or hand it to a friend if you’re tempted to look them up again. * Ask your friends to block them as well, if they try to contact you through them. Take more drastic steps if they won’t leave you alone. * Change your locks if they have a key they won’t give back. * Get a restraining order if they won’t leave you alone. * Ask your friends and family to stay with you so they keep away. * Tell them you’ll call the police if they continue to both your persistently