1. Getting tongue-tied after you introduce yourself. 1. Have a couple conversation starters ready to go, e.g. “So you’re on the soccer team, right?”; “How did you think that history exam went?”; “Are you liking this DJ? It’s not exactly my style but I’m trying to stay open-minded…” 1. Lying about yourself to try and catch their eye. 1. Instead, be honest if you aren’t familiar with something, e.g. “I’ve actually never heard of that movie. What’s it about?” 2. ...or change the subject to something you both know about, e.g. “But you play basketball too, right? I used to play all the time with my brothers. What’s your position?” 1. Act overly desperate or clingy, e.g. “Wow, that’s amazing! You’re so talented! I had no idea you could do that!” or “Wait, before you leave, I just wanted to tell you how happy I am that I finally got the chance to meet you!…” 1. Stay casual and try not to put too much pressure on yourself. This is only the first time you’re meeting them. You’ll have plenty of other chances to talk to them! E.g. “Wow, that’s cool. I didn’t know you could do that! When did you learn?” or “Nice, it was great to officially meet you.” 1. Be too self-deprecating, e.g. “Man, I’m so awkward. Sorry about that, that was really weird.” 1. Some self-deprecation can be funny, but too much will make you come off as unsure of yourself. Strike a balance, e.g. “Let’s just say I’m not the best artist in the world, but my iPhone photography is legendary.” 1. Act disinterested, e.g. introducing yourself and waiting for them to start the conversation, or not listening when they talk. 1. You want to play it cool, but don’t go over the top. Keep up your end of the conversation, listen to them, and smile and laugh in whatever way feels natural to you.