Daily happenings Get to know their daily routines to make the distance between you seem shorter. What were your highs and lows of the day? What’s the weirdest thing that happened to you today? What was something that made you chuckle today? Did you having any weird encounters with people today? Did you learn anything new today? Likes and interests Learn what they’re into to find shared hobbies and passions. What’s the best dish you’ve ever cooked? What’s the last book you read and enjoyed? What’s one song that can always brighten your day? What’s your ideal vacation spot? What’s your favorite season? Personality traits Get to know the person to foster a deeper connection. What’s your biggest pet peeve? What would you say are some of your best qualities? Do you consider yourself an introvert, extrovert, or a little of both? Are you a risk-taker or do you like to play it safe? What makes you smile? Relationships Get to know their relationship style to increase compatibility. What’s something you like for your partners to do for you? What’s something sweet you like to do for your partner? What’s the first thing you notice about a romantic interest? How do you feel about monogamy versus polyamory? Do you like receiving little gifts and surprises from your partner? Experiences Ask about cool or fun things they’ve done to prompt interesting stories. Have you ever been in a long distance relationship before? Have you ever been on T.V.? Have you ever been camping? Have you ever been to one (or more) of the Seven Wonders of The World? Have you ever lost something priceless? The past Learn about their personal history to give you a better idea of who they are today. What was your dream job when you were a child? What’s the strangest thing you did when you were a kid? Have you ever collected anything (like rocks, trinkets, cards, or pins)? What was your favorite food growing up? What’s the first childhood memory you can remember? Speculative Ask hypothetical questions to jumpstart a fun conversation of “what if”? If you could drop everything and go anywhere right now, where would you go? If you could see one band/musician (dead or alive) play a concert, who would it be? If you could only eat one type of food or dish for the rest of your life, what would it be? If you made contact with aliens, what would you ask them? If you could time travel, what era would you go to and why?