如何无视讨厌的邻居

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共同创作者是 Tami Claytor

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没人愿意和讨厌的邻居打交道。不管你的邻居喜欢每天凌晨两点播放震耳欲聋的音乐，还是让他们的狗跑到你家的草坪上撒欢，这些行为都让人厌恶又气愤。为了你的健康和幸福着想，还是别和他们一般见识。这篇文章就教你如何无视讨厌的邻居。

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使用降噪耳机

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    买一副能够阻隔噪音的降噪耳机。下次如果你的邻居再4小时不间断地弹吉他，戴上耳机就能安静很多。 [1]
    • 如果降噪耳机太贵，戴耳塞也行。 [2]
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购买白色噪音机

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    这种方法不能完全消除噪音，但平静的海浪声或雨声真的能够让人保持镇静。下次邻居家的狗在夜里叫不停的时候，打开白噪音机，你就能放松地睡个好觉了。 [3]
    • 如果你不喜欢睡觉的时候戴耳塞，这种方法正适合你。
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在前院插标语牌

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    如果你的邻居有擅自闯入你家领地的习惯，标语也能起到提醒的作用。如果邻居家的狗曾经在你家的前院拉屎撒尿，你又不想面对面找狗主人谈，就买个写着 “禁止宠物大小便”的标牌。这些标牌可以在网上或者宠物店买到。如果擅自闯入的是你的邻居，就买一个“请勿擅自闯入”的标牌放在院子里。 [4]
    • 如果你在商店没看到标语牌售卖，就用记号笔和硬纸板自己做。
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买窗帘

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    当你需要享受私人空间时就把窗帘拉上。 [5] 如果你一点儿也不想看到邻居，就买遮光窗帘。 [6]
    • 如果邻居家的噪音吵得你头疼，你还可以买有隔音效果的窗帘。 [7]
5

锁门

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    锁上门以后，你的空间就彻底属于你了。如果邻居不断来打扰，就在门上加一道门栓。有了自己的空间后，你能更加轻松地忽略邻居给你带来的不便。 [8]
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铺地毯吸收噪音

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    如果你总被隔壁的噪音打扰，就买几张地毯铺在家里，起到降噪的作用。建议寝室和客厅等房间要全部铺上地毯。 [9]
    • 在所有房间整体铺设地毯对于吸收噪音有非常明显的效果。如果你打算装修房子，不妨考虑将瓷砖或木地板都换成地毯，这样你会感到更安静。 [10]
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在屋子里放满家具，减少回声

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    如果房间太空旷，从邻居家传来的噪音就会在你的房间里产生回声。买些沙发、柜子、床架之类的家具放在家里。当你坐在崭新的沙发（状态很好的二手沙发也行）上，享受着久违的宁静时——那种感觉真的太好了！ [11]
    • 带软垫的家具能够很好地降低噪音。布料和填充物比木质家具更能够吸收噪音。建议买一张大沙发和一把舒服的椅子。 [12]
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填补家里的裂缝

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    你可以用硅胶填缝剂把这些缝隙堵起来。如果想增大门窗的隔音性，就买些密封毛条贴在门缝下，或者给窗户安装玻璃插板。这两种方法都能将噪音挡在屋外，让你的家恢复平静。 [13]
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邀请朋友来家里做客

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    在朋友贴心的帮助和支持下，你更容易将讨厌的邻居抛之脑后。把你的烦恼向朋友倾诉，或者聊聊别的话题，转移你的注意力。如果你不知道怎么对付讨厌的邻居，也可以向朋友咨询意见。 [14]
    • 不要用开派对制造噪音的方式报复邻居。你应该对他们不予理睬，而不是走向另一个极端。报复邻居只会激化邻里之间的矛盾。
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用冥想来减轻压力

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    冥想似乎和本文的主题没什么联系，但是应对粗鲁或吵闹的邻居真的让人很吃力。所以，本文建议通过 冥想 让你的生活恢复宁静。首先，坐下来闭上眼睛。把精力集中在呼吸上，深深地呼气和吐气。20分钟的冥想就能让你彻底放松。
    • 不论邻居闹出多大的动静都不要理睬。你只管每天做两次冥想，保持内心镇定，心情愉悦。
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如果忽略对方不能解决问题，还是找他们聊聊吧

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    用富有同情心、同理心的方式谈谈你感到烦恼的原因。倾听邻居的观点，试着想出令你们双方都满意的解决方案。 [15]
    • 可能你的邻居经常在你的草坪上走来走去，或者让自家的狗在你的地盘上玩耍，随地大小便。有礼貌地指出这些问题，并且和邻居一起沿着两家人草坪的边界走一遍，弄清你的院子从哪里结束，他的院子从哪里开始。 [16]
    • 如果当面交谈让你觉得紧张，就把你的名字和联系方式写在便利贴上，贴在邻居的门上。不要写匿名纸条，因为这会给人消极对抗的感觉，反而会令事态更严重。
    • 邻居可能不接受你的抱怨。如果是这样，你只有通知物业公司或居委会。他们会帮忙解决问题。 [17]
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如果所有方法都不管用，就向警察投诉

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    你还要熟悉法律对噪音的定义，因为是否噪音违规还取决于你住在哪里。 [18]
    • 你最好先找邻居谈，谈不妥再报警。因为警察的介入会让问题的严重性升级，将邻居置于危险之中。

参考

  1. ↑ https://youtu.be/4K5zMPtsp0k?t=86
  2. ↑ https://www.bobvila.com/slideshow/9-top-tips-for-blocking-out-noisy-neighbors-66225
  3. ↑ https://www.apartmenttherapy.com/dealing-with-loud-neighbors-60339
  4. ↑ https://todayshomeowner.com/how-to-keep-dogs-off-lawn/
  5. ↑ https://www.bobvila.com/slideshow/9-top-tips-for-blocking-out-noisy-neighbors-66225
  6. ↑ https://www.apartmenttherapy.com/dealing-with-loud-neighbors-60339
  7. ↑ https://www.apartmenttherapy.com/dealing-with-loud-neighbors-60339
  8. ↑ https://upgradedhome.com/how-to-ignore-bad-neighbors/
  9. ↑ https://www.apartmenttherapy.com/dealing-with-loud-neighbors-60339
  1. ↑ https://www.apartmenttherapy.com/dealing-with-loud-neighbors-60339
  2. ↑ https://www.apartmenttherapy.com/dealing-with-loud-neighbors-60339
  3. ↑ https://homedecorbliss.com/furniture-absorb-sound/
  4. ↑ https://www.bobvila.com/slideshow/9-top-tips-for-blocking-out-noisy-neighbors-66225
  5. ↑ https://upgradedhome.com/how-to-ignore-bad-neighbors/
  6. ↑ https://www.today.com/home/9-smart-tips-how-handle-nasty-neighbors-t75371
  7. ↑ https://www.today.com/home/9-smart-tips-how-handle-nasty-neighbors-t75371
  8. ↑ https://www.apartmenttherapy.com/dealing-with-loud-neighbors-60339
  9. ↑ https://www.apartmenttherapy.com/dealing-with-loud-neighbors-60339

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