Asa Don Brown, PhD, DNCCM, FAAETS

Clinical Psychologist

Dr. Asa Don Brown is a Clinical Psychologist with over 30 years of experience. He specializes in working with families, children, and couples; while treating a variety of psychological disorders, trauma, and abuse. Dr. Brown has specialized in negotiation and profiling. As a prolific author, Dr. Brown has published four books; contributed to multiple other books; published 500+ articles in professional and popular magazines, journals, and peer-reviewed publications; and has recently published a number of creative and literary works.

Education

  • Harvard University, Master of Liberal Arts, ALM
  • Capella University, Ph.D. Clinical Psychology
  • University of Great Falls, MS, Counseling
  • University of Great Falls, B.S., Theology & Religion with a Minor in Marketing

Professional Achievements

  • Master Thesis: "The Weaver of Stories", Harvard University, 2025
  • Awarded a Humanitarian Award for human rights and advocacy
  • Ayanay Psychological Association (APA) Ethical & Psychological Award and Director's Award recipient, London, U.K.
  • Dr. Brown has received multiple awards and recognitions over the years.

Certifications & Organizations

  • Fellow at the American Academy of Experts in Traumatic Stress (A.A.E.T.S.)
  • Diplomate for the National Center for Crisis Management (D.N.C.C.M.)
  • Global Goodwill Ambassador, GGA – Ambassador and Humanitarian
  • Named a Global Presence Ambassador by Parenting 2.0
  • Certified Crisis Chaplin (C.C.C.)
  • Volunteer: New York State Firefighter, Fire Police, CISM Member, and Search and Rescue
  • Multiple certifications and trainings in trauma, hostage, and crises management.
  • Serves on multiple boards both nationally and internationally

Favorite Piece of Advice

All children should be taught to unconditionally accept, approve, admire, appreciate, forgive, trust, and ultimately, love their own person. - Dr. Asa Don Brown

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