70 Best Engagement Wishes for Friends, Family, & More

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Plus what to say in a sentimental engagement card
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Getting engaged is an exciting time in a couple’s life, and it’s often made even more special when their loved ones celebrate with them. If someone you know just got engaged, show them how happy you are for them by sending them a congratulations message. In this article, we’ve gathered all the best engagement wishes for anyone in your life—including friends, siblings, children, parents, and more. Plus, learn how to write an engagement card and get answers to common questions about engagement card etiquette.

Best Engagement Greetings

  1. Short: “Congratulations on your engagement, you love birds!”
  2. Funny: “DANG...look at that rock! I mean...congrats on your engagement!”
  3. For Friends: “Soulmates do exist! Congratulations on your beautiful engagement.”
  4. For Siblings: “Looks like I’m gaining a sib! Congratulations on your engagement!”
  5. For Children: “We knew this one was meant to be family! Congrats!”
  6. Quotes: “The best thing to hold onto in life is each other.” — Audrey Hepburn
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Short & Simple Engagement Wishes

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  1. You don’t have to write a lengthy paragraph to let a couple know you’re excited for them; sometimes, a simple message will do the trick! This is especially true if you don’t know the couple well or if you plan on celebrating their engagement another way. Here are some examples: [1]
    • “Congratulations on your engagement, you love birds!”
    • “Congratulations! Here’s to many happy years together.”
    • “I can’t wait to watch you both walk down the aisle! Congratulations!”
    • “Engaged has a nice RING to it. Congrats!”
    • “Congrats on your engagement! I’m so happy for both of you!”
    • “Sending lots of love as you take this exciting step together.”
    • “I couldn't be more thrilled to hear your big news—congratulations!”
    • “So happy for you both! Let the wedding planning (and fun) begin!”
    • “It's easy to see how much you love each other. Congrats!”
    • “It’s an honor to watch your love story unfold. Congratulations on your engagement!”
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Funny Engagement Wishes

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  1. If the engaged couple is more laidback, they may appreciate a more casual or funny engagement card; just make sure to tailor your message to their sense of humor. Here are some examples that will get them laughing: [2]
    • “DANG...look at that rock! I mean...congrats on your engagement!”
    • “They liked it, so they put a ring on it. Beyoncé would be proud!”
    • “Congrats on your engagement! I’m really looking forward to the open bar—I mean, wedding.”
    • “I'm so happy for you and your new engagement ring. I mean, fiancé!”
    • “Congrats to a beautiful couple whose wedding I actually want to attend!”
    • “I am 90% happy for you and only 10% jealous. Congrats on your engagement!”
    • “I can't wait to celebrate the next chapter with you. Love, your official third wheel.”
    • “Thanks for giving me an excuse to pop a bottle of champagne. Congrats!”
    • “So I guess you two are pretty serious then…Congrats!”
    • “Fiancé? Fiancée? Either way, this calls for a parté!”
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  1. Whether you’ve been friends since childhood, college, or adulthood, nothing’s more fun than cheering your friend on when they get engaged. Let them know how much you cherish their friendship and how much you’re looking forward to seeing their love story unfold. Here are some examples: [3]
    • “Soulmates do exist! Congratulations on your beautiful engagement, and cheers to a lifetime together.”
    • “Congratulations to my two amazing friends! I haven’t stopped smiling since I heard the news!”
    • “I can’t believe two of my best friends are engaged! Warmest wishes to my favorite couple.”
    • “Congratulations on your engagement! May you bring each other as much happiness as your friendship has brought to my life—and then some!”
    • “We've celebrated a lot of big life events together, but this one definitely tops the list. Congratulations to my amazing bestie!”
    • “Congrats on finally locking this thing down. You're both too amazing not to be together!”
    • “I can't believe I have to share my best friend now. At least you're perfect for each other. Congratulations!”
    • “I’m so happy that my best friend has found the love of their life. Congratulations on your engagement!”
    • “Congrats on your engagement! I’m so happy for both of you, and I can't wait to help you celebrate this new chapter of your lives!”
    • “You both deserve all the joy, love, and pleasure this world has to offer. Congratulations on your engagement!”
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  1. Getting engaged is an exciting time in someone’s life, so show your brother or sister your support by expressing your own excitement. Welcome their new fiance with open arms and let them know how excited you are that they’re joining your family. Here are some examples: [4]
    • “Congratulations to my wonderful sibling on your engagement! May this special time in your life be filled with love, joy, and beautiful moments together.
    • “Looks like I’m gaining a brother/sister! Congratulations on your engagement!”
    • “Congrats! We couldn’t be more excited to add another brother/sister to the family!
    • “This engagement stuff has worked out so well. You get a fiancé and I get a new brother/sister.”
    • “Congratulations on your engagement! I’m so excited that your partner is joining our family – they’ll fit right in!”
    • “As your sibling, I’m so blessed to see you so happy and in love. I hope you'll always be as happy as you are today.”
    • “I can’t believe my big/little sibling is getting married! Congratulations to you both.”
    • “Congratulations on the engagement! I’m so happy to see [Name] will be joining the family!”
    • “And I thought our family couldn’t get any better! Congrats to you both.”
    • “I’m so happy for you both! The wedding is going to be amazing, even if dad’s dancing won’t be!”
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  1. Many parents dream about seeing their child walk down the aisle someday. While you’ve probably already congratulated them in person when you found out about their engagement, writing them an engagement card can be a physical reminder of the occasion they can cherish for years to come. Here are some examples of what to write: [5]
    • “We knew this one was meant to be family! Congratulations on your engagement.”
    • “Your beautiful engagement marks the beginning of a new chapter for you and our family. We couldn't be happier. Congrats!”
    • “We're thrilled to add a permanent new place setting at the table. Congratulations on your engagement!”
    • “As your parent, words can't describe how happy I am to see you find true love—you deserve it. Congratulations on getting engaged.”
    • “Happiness is seeing your child happy, and I can tell you’ve never been happier. Congratulations on your engagement.”
    • “We couldn’t be happier to welcome a new son/daughter into our family. Congrats to the cutest couple!”
    • “As your mom/dad, I couldn't be more overjoyed to watch your love story unfold. Wishing you a lifetime of love and happiness.”
    • “All we have ever wanted is to see you happy. I love you so much and wish you the very best in this new chapter.”
    • “I'm so happy for you—and for us! You've chosen a wonderful partner to spend your life with, and we're so excited to welcome them into the family.”
    • “Watching your relationship grow with compassion, strength, and love has been every parent's biggest dream. Congratulations on your engagement!”
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  1. It’s never too late to find love again. If your mom or dad is remarrying, or if they’re marrying each other, make sure you let them know how happy and excited you are for their future. Show them that you support their engagement by mentioning their fiance and how you look forward to them being a part of your family. Here are some examples:
    • “Congratulations to my wonderful mother/father on your engagement! May your hearts be forever intertwined as you embark on this beautiful journey of love.”
    • “Congratulations on your engagement, Mom/Dad! I’m so happy you’ve found someone who makes you smile every day.”
    • “Mom/Dad, I’m so excited to welcome [fiance’s name] into our family. Congratulations on your engagement!”
    • “You’re both so special to me and together you're a great couple. Can't wait to see where all your dreams take you!”
    • “I wish you nothing but happiness in your engagement, Mom/Dad. Looking forward to the wedding!”
    • “Who knew you still had it in you? Congratulations, Mom/Dad. I’m so excited to celebrate with you!”
    • “Mom/Dad, I always hoped you’d find love again. Congratulations on your engagement!”
    • “Congrats on your engagement, Mom/Dad! Here's to both of you and the very special love you share.”
    • “Wishing you and [fiance’s name] a lifetime of happiness, Mom/Dad. I’m so happy you two found each other.”
    • “I’m absolutely thrilled about your engagement and so excited to welcome [fiance’s name] to our family. Congratulations, Mom/Dad.”
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  1. There are lots of well-known quotes about love, engagement, and marriage. Whether you’re looking for something realistic, cheesy, or funny, adding a quote can be a great way to make your engagement wish stand out, especially if you’re having trouble deciding what to say. Here are some examples: [6]
    • “The best thing to hold onto in life is each other.” — Audrey Hepburn
    • “A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.” — Mignon McLaughlin
    • “When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible.” — When Harry Met Sally
    • “The highest happiness on earth is marriage.” — William Lyon Phelps
    • “If there is such a thing as a good marriage, it is because it resembles friendship rather than love.” — Michel de Montaigne
    • “Every heart sings a song, incomplete until another heart whispers back.” — Plato
    • “Love reminds you that nothing else matters.” — Amy Bushnell
    • “Marriage is a mosaic you build with your spouse. Millions of tiny moments that create your love story.” — Jennifer Smith
    • “To love and be loved is to feel the sun from both sides.” — David Viscott
    • “Maybe love isn't something you find. Maybe love is something that finds you.” — Emily Henry
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How to Write an Engagement Card

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  1. Open your message with a greeting; in general, it doesn’t need to be too formal, though the familiarity may vary depending on how well you know them. Usually, saying something like “To the happy couple” will suffice. Make sure to refer to both people, even if you only know one of them well. [7]
  2. Write the body of your engagement card by offering congratulations and a personalized message. If you know them well, reminisce on your favorite memories you share with the two of them. The more personal details you include will show the couple how truly happy you are for them. [8]
    • If you don’t know them that well, it’s okay to keep your congratulations brief. Focus your message on the future rather than the past by wishing them luck with their marriage.
  3. If you haven’t already done so in the body of your message, wish the couple well for their future together. Like your greeting, base the formality of your sign-off on your relationship with the couple. Something like “Yours sincerely” may seem too formal, while simply writing “From” is too casual. Aim for something like “With love” or “Lots of love.” Then, sign your name so they know who the card is from. [9]
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  1. You are not obligated to send an engagement card, but it can be a nice, thoughtful gesture. Some couples may expect engagement cards, while others may not care. If you’re especially close to them, it may be a good idea to send a card. If you’re not that close, it’s acceptable to congratulate them through text or on social media. [10]
  2. There isn’t a specific timeframe for when you should send an engagement card. If you want, send one as soon as you learn about the couple’s engagement. Or, wait and give it to them in person the next time you see them. If they host an engagement party, this is also a great time to give them a card.
  3. It isn’t required to put money in an engagement card, though it can be a nice gesture. Ultimately, it depends on the couple’s preferences; some couples will make a wedding list with gift ideas or ask for money to put toward a certain goal, like a honeymoon. If you’re not sure, consider asking the couple directly.
  4. If you know the parents of the engaged couple, or someone mentions that their child is engaged, it is polite to congratulate them. However, this can be done verbally, and there is usually no reason to send a card.
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