Dating a Virgo man. I need details please!
Hi all, I just started dating a Virgo guy and I'm really into him but I need HELP yall, what are Virgo men like in relationships? Is it worth it to date a Virgo dude? Any particular upsides/downsides? Thanks!!!!
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If you're dating a Virgo man, make sure you pick up after yourself and be conscientious of cleanliness and hygiene! Allow him to give advice no matter how cringy, and let him have his way. When fighting, let him be right and make it seem like he won. Listen to him and let him talk when he needs to talk and let him complain without stepping in. Try not to give too much advice to a Virgo man, they like to think they know it all.
Virgo men are attracted to cleanliness and good hygiene, they want you to smell good and look good. Wear fitting clothes, they want to see your shape. Be smart and witty but not smarter than them, let them mansplain from time to time. Be a good listener and a good follower. A brainy girl next door type might get them going, they don’t want a bad girl, they just want the girl to be a little like their mother, but also hint at being possibly a little naughty in private.
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Virgo men are attracted to cleanliness and good hygiene, they want you to smell good and look good. Wear fitting clothes, they want to see your shape. Be smart and witty but not smarter than them, let them mansplain from time to time. Be a good listener and a good follower. A brainy girl next door type might get them going, they don’t want a bad girl, they just want the girl to be a little like their mother, but also hint at being possibly a little naughty in private.
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I've found that my virgo man is very straightforward. He has a strong personality that can rub some people the wrong way, but it's something that I find really attractive about him. If I ask him for advice, I can trust that he's going to tell me what I need to hear without sugarcoating it. People think virgos are critical but I know he just wants to help me be better and I know he cares about me.
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If you're the kind of person who wants a lovey-dovey man who will dote on you and be romantic, a virgo man may not be for you. My boyfriend is a virgo and he's very practical. His love language is acts of service, so he's always doing things for me and is attentive to what I really need. But when it comes to more tender or emotional things sometimes I need to be direct about what I need from him. It's not necessarily a bad thing, it just took me some getting used to!
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I have a virgo husband and I love how organized he is! He's great at planning dates and trips. He's super detail-oriented and is able to keep things running smoothly better than anyone I know. I'm so grateful that I have him to take care of household logistics things that would give me a headache.
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Im with a virgo first and last time i date one learning lesson for me for sure. I don't regret him but im just tired of this childish games with him he doesn't like to put effort into the relationship he expects me to do all the team work.
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Well speaking from me being a Virgo male your in for a treat once you make it to his heart you will be number 1 to him he will put u before himself in almost all aspects plus he will be loyal so dont question that or you may push him to make you correct just saying its how ive always been we dont like liars
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But how do we get to the heart? Patience I’m guessing? Do you give second chances after calling it quits and saying he’s not ready for a relationship, after asking if I want children and when I’d move in with a guy?
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I'm dating a virgo and I think the way to his heart is to show him that you care about the things that matter to him, in a practical way. A lot of people in this thread are talking about how virgos are particular, and my boyfriend is that way too. I made the effort to learn how he likes certain things done and made sure to do little things his way. He said that it made him feel cared for and validated, because past partners have said that he's controlling or would get upset that he was so particular.
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I’m a Virgo male, and I can tell you that, it’s really hard to reach our heart, but if you manage to enter, you will have a loyal partner for your entire life. But, don’t try to fool us, we are very analytic and patient, we are not afraid to take our time to lower the risks of making a mistake, so if you aren’t sure about your feelings, don’t dare to even try to make to fall in love a Virgo, you will have a bad time. Also, we deeply HATE disorder and in some degree too much impulsiveness, we need stability, order and time (don’t pressure a Virgo, that makes us mad dramatically quick), we love to take our time to make decisions, sometimes too much that people see us as undecided, but that impression is definitely wrong.
Virgo isn’t the sign of passion, sex, and mad love, but we show our affection through loyalty, details, and kindness (that doesn’t mean that we are unable to love properly, but at least for me, i prefer going slowly rather than being impulsive).
In resume, if you want an everyday adventure and impulsive love, a Virgo is not for you. If you prefer something more stable and with moderate and frequent doses of love, Virgo is a very good option.
Finally, Virgos choose their partners, they are not chosen.
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Virgo isn’t the sign of passion, sex, and mad love, but we show our affection through loyalty, details, and kindness (that doesn’t mean that we are unable to love properly, but at least for me, i prefer going slowly rather than being impulsive).
In resume, if you want an everyday adventure and impulsive love, a Virgo is not for you. If you prefer something more stable and with moderate and frequent doses of love, Virgo is a very good option.
Finally, Virgos choose their partners, they are not chosen.
It really depends on the moon sign and Venus placements of the Virgo; this will all change the way the Virgo expresses love and how open the Virgo will be in a relationship. You may have a longer wait to have access to the heart of a Virgo with another earth sign moon placement. Whereas, for example, a Virgo with a Pisces moon will be more open than most Virgos.
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