How do I impress my crush without being cringe?
I (16 f) want to get my crush (17 m) to notice me in a romantic way, but I don’t want to be too cringey or obvious about it. I sort of just want to catch his eye without him realizing I’m even interested, if that makes sense. Sometimes I feel like he looks past me at school, but other times I kind of get the vibe he’s into me. What can I do to impress him (preferably without talking to him, I’m kind of shy)?
I think having good social energy is one of your best bets if you want someone to notice you that way. Do your best to be visibly social, smile a lot, and seem open and relaxed. If you spend a lot of time around this guy, occasionally flash them some eye contact and a sly smile if you're not directly talking to him. But the social energy is really a key part. Focus on your own friends, have a good time, enjoy the moment, and don't get too lost in your thoughts. He’ll pick up on your energy and be drawn to it. Otherwise, if you happen to see him regularly there's no reason you can't open a conversation. You can comment on something in the environment, comment on something he's wearing, any little thing can get your foot in the door. Just keep it simple and don’t overthink it!
Try to learn what his interests are, and then get into them. Even better if you can get really good at them. For example, if you know that he goes to a certain club during lunch, try dropping into a few meetings. He might notice that you're hanging out in the same places that he is and strike up a conversation! Good luck.
I know you said you're shy but I'd encourage you to muster up the courage to talk to him!! A lot of guys are pretty oblivious, so he might not notice all the hints you're trying to drop. I think the straightforward approach is the best way to go about this. If he doesn't feel the same way about you, you can move on with your life. And if he does like you back...this helps move things along faster! You got this!
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