What's considered a big age gap in relationships?

Nine years is an acceptable age gap. When there is an age gap of 10 years or more, the dynamics of the relationship can be quite unique. A parent/child power structure could develop, or a lack of mutual interests could cause you to want to spend more time with friends their own age.

Men often want to date women who are younger than them because they’re attracted to youthfulness. Younger women also tend to have less baggage, which older guys are generally not a fan of. So long as the two of you possess communication styles that are in sync with each other and you share common interests, values, and life goals, there’s nothing wrong with dating someone a little older than you.

Yeah as a woman who has dated a handful of older women and women my age I much prefer older women. I've been told I just have an "old soul" so maye that's part of it, but I also agree with the above poster, that they just have things figured out more and are more confident. Theres less questioning and wondering what they want--they KNOW what they want!

I know there's a ~discourse~ around age gap reltionships as like, imbalanced but tbh the biggest issue I see in age gap relationships (between consenting adults obviously) is that if the gap is big enough the older partner may eventually develop health complications and the younger partner may have to take care of them. All partners take care of each other, that's what love is, and just because you're older doesn't always mean you're going to get health problems, but it can be a lot more pressure and stress on the younger partner in these kinds of cases.

I'm 24 and my girlfriend is 17 is it acceptable

I am 19 and he is 32

I am 19 he is 32 he wants me to help him with everything like doing his laundry, cleaning for him and to spend the night at his house every day