What are the best ways to ask a girl out?

WikiDolphinWhisperer571
01/30/25 4:10pm
There's this girl I really like and want to ask out, but I'm clueless about how to do it. Any tips/advice on what to say and how to ask her?
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Connell Barrett
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01/31/25 9:15am
When asking out a girl, the key is to be confident and clear but not too direct. Being too direct would sound something like, “You're gorgeous and sexy and I want to date you.” That might make a girl feel uncomfortable. Instead, just be clear and say, "Hey, are you free for dinner on Thursday night? It'd be great to get to know you better.” This kind of invite makes it clear that you’re romantically interested in her.
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02/10/25 6:51pm
Start a casual, lighthearted conversation with her IRL or over text. If the vibes are good and she seems engaged with the conversation, that's your cue to ask her out. Say something like, "I've been really wanting to try this new restaurant downtown—would you want to go together sometime?" or "Do you want to grab coffee this Saturday? My treat!" Another great option is to invite her to something you already have planned. For example, you could say, "I've got an extra ticket to this concert coming up—want to go together?"
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Anonymous WikiFox
Anonymous WikiFox
04/16/25 9:34pm
How about movie instead of concert
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Anonymous WikiGorilla
Anonymous WikiGorilla
04/21/25 11:52pm
Even if you are nervous,do not let that show. You want to appear confident
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Anonymous WikiCloud
Anonymous WikiCloud
03/12/25 11:01pm
Just be calm and act chill
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Symphonie Traylor
02/11/25 5:51pm
Be honest about how you feel but learn how to respond to rejection if it doesn't go as planned. If she doesn't know you that well, she may be hesitant to accept. By responding appropriately to rejection now, you may open up an opportunity in the future.
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WikiLlamaJammer724
01/31/25 3:03pm
Try not to be afraid of rejection (I know, but still), and stay strong if she says no. Remember, there are plenty of fish in the sea and you're going to find the right person for you one day!
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Anonymous WikiChinchilla
Anonymous WikiChinchilla
02/11/25 4:40pm
thank you for, I really needed this.
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WikiLemurGlider790
01/31/25 11:36am
The most important thing when you ask a girl out, in my experience, is to be yourself. Even if things don't work out, you can at least go home knowing she wasn't going to be right for you in the first place. But things are more likely to work out if you're authentically you; women can tell when someone is putting on a show to try and impress them, and it almost never works.
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