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How do I keep him interested after sleeping with him?

Klare Heston, LCSW
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Klare Heston is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker based in Cleveland, Ohio. With experience in academic counseling and clinical supervision, Klare received her Master of Social Work from the Virginia Commonwealth University in 1983. She also holds a 2-Year Post-Graduate Certificate from the Gestalt Institute of Cleveland, as well as certification in Family Therapy, Supervision, Mediation, and Trauma Recovery and Treatment (EMDR).

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Don't jump into sleeping with him before you have a sense of how interested he is and what he might want. He has to know and like you to continue seeing you. Make sure that happens first.

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How do you get a shy guy to kiss you?

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You might consider kissing the shy guy yourself, or at least take enough initiative that he is certain you will respond to his kiss.

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How do you flirt with a shy girl?

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Start with connection about something she is interested in. Give her a compliment--first in general, and then about something more personal like her looks.

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How do you make a move on a guy?

Klare Heston, LCSW
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Klare Heston is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker based in Cleveland, Ohio. With experience in academic counseling and clinical supervision, Klare received her Master of Social Work from the Virginia Commonwealth University in 1983. She also holds a 2-Year Post-Graduate Certificate from the Gestalt Institute of Cleveland, as well as certification in Family Therapy, Supervision, Mediation, and Trauma Recovery and Treatment (EMDR).

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Start with social media comments, then have a conversation in person. Ask his friends if he is available. Then go ahead and ask him to do something.

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But what if you are scared to touch him?

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Just stay with what you are comfortable with. Don't touch if that scares you. You can delay that until you know he is interested. Pick and choose the suggestions from this article that work for you!

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How do you tell the guy you like that you like him without doing it directly?

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Re-read "How to Get Him to Make a Move." It contains a lot of good suggestions that are subtle. Choose the ones you are most comfortable with. But remember that there are no guarantees he will make a move. Some people are very shy and/or just inexperienced and just are not ready.

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